First of all, you can't FEEL any sperm in your body, because they're microscopic. The only way to discern the health of your husband's sperm is for him to be tested.
And if you're in pain, you need to see your gynecologist ASAP because there are many possible causes. What are you waiting for? Dr. J
You really need to go be evaluated by a gynocologisy. You may have a cyst that is blocking you from having a child. this can be removed and you will be relieved from painful sex and will be able to concive. dont put it off go get checked
happy baby making abby