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How long do people normally last, sexually?

I'm 15. My penis is around the average grown man. And my girlfriend and I are very sexually attracted to each other. We have sex and we do pretty much anything any chance we get. I don't know if she has ever orgasmed before and I was wondering how long the female usually lasts. Oral or sexual. We have sex for long periods of times and it takes me a long time to orgasm. So, I have the patience and everything. I can't tell if she ever orgasms or anything. How can I tell and how long does it take?
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U need to communicate to her and ask her if she is satisified. Combine ur sexual encounter along with a very good foreplay. educate urself on the internet  about sex and u ll be fine
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What do you think?  Does religion come in to play with the ethexs of this problem?
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I believe your age has a lot to do with it
You are very young to try to compare your body to someone that is fully grown. Sex is not everything! Especially when your only 15, there are many things you can focus this extra energy on. Check out "sex is not the problem, lust is " very easy read.
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Hello

I'm slightly confused by your questions. First, there is no "average" time that it takes either men or women to orgasm. When it comes to sex, everyone is different. And sometimes, we come very quickly, and sometimes it takes awhile. It depends on our mood, whether we're receiving adequate stimulation, and lots of other factors. I would suggest that you and your partner find out much more about both male and female sexuality. I recommend two books: "The New Male Sexuality," by Bernie Zilbergeld, Ph..D., has helped many men to better understand their sexuality, including lots of my high school and college students. And "For Yourself," by Lonnie Barbach, Ph.D., is practically the orgasm bible for women. It has lots of helpful information for women and girls about their sexuality and orgasm. Now that you're being sexual with another person, please also make sure to choose and use effective contraception and risk reduction. Remember that with great sex comes great responsibility. Have fun! Dr. J
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To clarify, my question is how long does each male or female take to orgasm?   I take a very long time. When gets tired of trying to get me off sometimes. Also, I can't orgasm from vaginal sex. Shouldn't I be able to?   I have many questions, sorry.
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