This entire post is going to seem selfish but I really need help.
My girlfriend of a year and a half, told me about a month ago that she was sexually molested as a child by her father. I love her with everything I am, she is everything I could ever want, and I love everything about her. She has been to counseling and is a very strong person so I know she will be ok. I, however, feel awful about it. Every time I think about it I get this feeling in the pit of my stomach like I am going to throw up, and every time I try to talk about how I feel with her, she just reminds me that she loves me and tells me not to think about it, but that doesn't help. I don't know if she says this just because she doesn't want to think about it, or if she thinks that I will just get over it. I am worried that this will affect our relationship if this feeling continues.
Anyway, my question is this, will this feeling ever go away?....Will I ever be able to get over this feeling of absolute hatred for that man?....and if so, how long will it take, and is there anything I can do in the mean time?
Thanks in advance for any advice.