Im not sure if love would be the topic, but my boyfriend is becoming more and more of a **** evryday and im getting fed up with it. He is always calling me down, saying i need to lose weight and that i would be a better lover if i were 100 lbs, well im 170 and had a baby eight months ago, exercising isnt exactly on my priority list. I walk alot so there you go, oviously not good enough for him. Stupid little things like not putting somthing away or the fridge didnt close properly, he makes the biggest friggin deal a man could make! and makes me feel dumb. He alaways rather go hang out with a friend than stay here and actually visit with his son, oviously theres more important things cause he doesnt help out with baby stuff at all! I am so depressed and dont know what to do with my life, cause i have no where to go really! My boyfriend has somewhat put me in debt with my credit cards (so have i), im trying to cancel them all but freaks on that too! i just dont know what to do anymore, i feel helpless! I just wish he would be more affectionet and care about the things i do for him, and i do ALOT!!! he works and pays rent and a few bills, and what do i do everything, to even taking the trash bags out on wedensdays, cause he never does, nor bothers with housework, just makes the mess!! so what do i do???? everytime i try to save money something happens and it never works out!! I have no family here so it makes it tougher!!