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sexual disease
I am 19 year old ......i had started mastrubation when i was reading in seventh class..because i am not know its bad result......what when i came in ninth class then due to study i realize which i am doing is wrong and i also realize its effect on my body...I had feel soonly tired.....so i had left this ..but one problem had created ...i am fell in night fall.............from that day we never doing mastrubate .......when i am sleep in the night then my liquid is own leak due to some bad dreamz.. my mastrube is leaking itself.......I am tried every hospital..but i am always got unsuccess.........please give me some precautions for preventing this disese.......and some medicines which prevent me and also its no side effect so i leaving good and healthy life......My dreamz is much higher.......but i am in struggle...help me .......i am helpless.....
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Hello.
I will tell you the same thing I have told countless men who have asked me about masturbation (self-pleasuring), and that is that you don't have a disease, and there's nothing "wrong" with you. In fact, at age 19, your body is doing EXACTLY what it's programmed to do: get erections and ejaculate. The more you repress your sexual feelings, the more you'll find yourself having sexual dreams and sleep orgasms. This is because your hormones are at their highest level right now, your body has completed puberty and is preparing for adulthood, including sex.
Almost everyone feels insecure about masturbation—or self-pleasuring. One of the reasons we’re so uncomfortable with it is because we don’t receive any accurate information, but rather grow up hearing lots of myths which are not supported by factual data. We all want to know that what WE do is OK. From your note, it looks like you feel that it’s somehow harmful or wrong. It sounds like you’re worried that self-pleasuring is some kind of “condition” or illness. Not true
Let’s note the difference between a “belief” and a demonstrable fact. There are people who believe that the earth is flat, in spite of all evidence to the contrary. Similiarly, many cultures have myths that associate semen with strength. None of these myths is based on any scientific research.
Self-pleasuring doesn’t affect your body in any negative way. What it CAN do, like any strenuous exercise, is either energize you or make you feel tired. Exercise affects everyone different, so it’s possible that after an orgasm, you feel tired, the same way as after a brisk work-out. And you know that later, you’ll regain your energy. The difference here is that no one has told you that working out is going to affect you permanently, so you haven’t begun to worry and stress about exercise the way you’re worrying and stressing about self-pleasuring.
Let’s talk about what we DO know about self-pleasuring.
It’s the surest way to orgasm and the most effective way to learn about our sexual response cycle, as well as the surest way men to learn orgasmic control. If you feel you come too quickly, the surest way to slow down is to teach yourself a new pattern via self-pleasuring.
Another advantage is self-knowledge: How can you show a partner what you like if you don’t know yourself?
And the #1 reason for self-pleasuring: it’s fun!
Self-pleasuring is a part of who you are sexually—for your whole life, not just when you don’t have a partner. People self-pleasure from birth to death, when they’re alone and when they’re partnered. It’s just one of many options we have as sexual beings. It’s not better or worse than partner sex, just different—like fish is different than chicken.
Remember that all our scientific data show that the people who take responsibility for their OWN pleasure have the best sex lives and rate themselves as happiest about their sexuality. So please stop torturing yourself, accept your sexuality as a gift and start enjoying life.
Your body is working fine—it’s your heart/brain that’s getting in the way. For more information about self-pleasuring, attitude, etc., I highly recommend the book “The New Male Sexuality” by Bernie Zilbergeld, Ph.D. It’s widely available online, both used and in paperback and is an invaluable resource. Best of luck to you. Dr. J
I will tell you the same thing I have told countless men who have asked me about masturbation (self-pleasuring), and that is that you don't have a disease, and there's nothing "wrong" with you. In fact, at age 19, your body is doing EXACTLY what it's programmed to do: get erections and ejaculate. The more you repress your sexual feelings, the more you'll find yourself having sexual dreams and sleep orgasms. This is because your hormones are at their highest level right now, your body has completed puberty and is preparing for adulthood, including sex.
Almost everyone feels insecure about masturbation—or self-pleasuring. One of the reasons we’re so uncomfortable with it is because we don’t receive any accurate information, but rather grow up hearing lots of myths which are not supported by factual data. We all want to know that what WE do is OK. From your note, it looks like you feel that it’s somehow harmful or wrong. It sounds like you’re worried that self-pleasuring is some kind of “condition” or illness. Not true
Let’s note the difference between a “belief” and a demonstrable fact. There are people who believe that the earth is flat, in spite of all evidence to the contrary. Similiarly, many cultures have myths that associate semen with strength. None of these myths is based on any scientific research.
Self-pleasuring doesn’t affect your body in any negative way. What it CAN do, like any strenuous exercise, is either energize you or make you feel tired. Exercise affects everyone different, so it’s possible that after an orgasm, you feel tired, the same way as after a brisk work-out. And you know that later, you’ll regain your energy. The difference here is that no one has told you that working out is going to affect you permanently, so you haven’t begun to worry and stress about exercise the way you’re worrying and stressing about self-pleasuring.
Let’s talk about what we DO know about self-pleasuring.
It’s the surest way to orgasm and the most effective way to learn about our sexual response cycle, as well as the surest way men to learn orgasmic control. If you feel you come too quickly, the surest way to slow down is to teach yourself a new pattern via self-pleasuring.
Another advantage is self-knowledge: How can you show a partner what you like if you don’t know yourself?
And the #1 reason for self-pleasuring: it’s fun!
Self-pleasuring is a part of who you are sexually—for your whole life, not just when you don’t have a partner. People self-pleasure from birth to death, when they’re alone and when they’re partnered. It’s just one of many options we have as sexual beings. It’s not better or worse than partner sex, just different—like fish is different than chicken.
Remember that all our scientific data show that the people who take responsibility for their OWN pleasure have the best sex lives and rate themselves as happiest about their sexuality. So please stop torturing yourself, accept your sexuality as a gift and start enjoying life.
Your body is working fine—it’s your heart/brain that’s getting in the way. For more information about self-pleasuring, attitude, etc., I highly recommend the book “The New Male Sexuality” by Bernie Zilbergeld, Ph.D. It’s widely available online, both used and in paperback and is an invaluable resource. Best of luck to you. Dr. J
i have a friend who has this same some problem. high tech science doesnt have a cure from i know, but natual medecine does. you have to go to some shaman or people in the mountains. my friend went to somebody in south american in the mountains did alot of exercise. he was tempted many times to masturbate. he changed alot. 4 months later he said wow that was an experience and he up to this date no more sex dreamz and no sperm comes out from dreams only when he needs to let it out controlled. it wont be 1 or 2 it might take months seriously.
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