A doctor can tell by pelvic exam if a girl's hymen is broken. But he can NOT tell when or how it was broken. There is no way a physical exam can determine how or when a girl's hymen was broken.
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No, a physician cannot tell what caused hymen breackage. In today's modern world (assuming you live in one), many women are so physically active that their hymens are either partially or totally broken by means other than a penis.
Who told you that (mom etc.?) and can I ask why this is important?
I wonder why Nobody suggests any anticeptic/antibiotic or pain killer for girl who is having sex for the first time during marries or by other means why men are so cruel? I got married last week and had a terrible painful sex with lots of bleeding for five days . I went to several doctors to consult about this only to come up with a filthy remark about my virginity. Nobody even my husband, bothered to care about my pain and anxiety about infection. Please suggesst as early as possible as I am going to stay with my parents untill I get cured.
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