Hello :)
I have a problem with my girlfriend. We have been engaged since 2007, and we never had any sexuality problems. To tell the truth, i was the one without any experience so she "had to wait" until i was ready.
Anyway, everything has been going absolutely smoothly. However, since some months ago, she suddenly started losing interest in having sex with me. When i raised the issue, she claimed it was a "bad time", and left it at that. After some time had passed i raised again the issue (in the meantime we decided to live together during academic studies), and she told me that she did feel like our relationship was like a "brother-sister" relationship, and so she was not in the "mood". I tried all my best to "fix" things and i succeed. At least, that's what she said. In any case, his "sexual appetite" did not return. She confessed me that, after all those wrong hypotesis, even she did not know "what's going wrong". Right now, she just claims that "she changed", apparently. It happens, she says.
This being said, i exclude that another man is behind this. I know her, and she would just end our relationship if she did not want my company anymore. Moreover, if we exlude our sexuality sphere, she is a perfect girlfriend.
However, i do not feel at ease about this situation. I do not particularly feel the lack of orgasms or anything like that. At least not literally. I miss all which is -behind- the sexual act. The feeling of being wanted, being loved in every way.
Despite she continues to tell me that this situation is not imputable to a behavior of mine, i cannot believe her. I tried, but i cannot think of anything else than: "this is my fault. somewhere, i'm doing something wrong."
It's not normal for a healty young girl (22) to not feel any sexual urges for a period of time so long.
At least, i think.
I hope you can help me. I really need some serious advice.
P.S. Sorry about my english. I am not a native speaker.
Thanks in advance