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Guidance , plz !
Hello , my name is Batre ( Male ) and I'm 21 years old. I'm bi-sexual , recently I had a crush on some guy ( also Bi-Sexual ) . A friend of ours introduced us to each other . We've had sex 3 days right after we got to know each other . But since then , I felt like he didin't want to see me . His sign is GEMINI and I'm SCORPIO . I've looked up the Gemini Scorpio Compatibilty in the internet , and it says that Gemini needs space , etc . Note that , both of us wanted our relationship to be " A Friendship with sex " .. so , we don't act like lovers . My question is as follows : - What do I do to make him ask about me , call ?.. I'm living in so much depression because of this . although I met him the other day , but he didn't seem like wanting to see me . so , I made up my mind not to call him the whole day .. and see what happens . He didn't call the whole day , not even a msg !
if he knows that its just friends with benefits and you too then thats why hes just taking it like that. now maybe he feels the same way and you need to him him up quick or lose the guys and get a girll man.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Hi Batre.
Thank you for posting. I can't comment on any questions about astrology, but I CAN give you some potential options.
So you and your new friend have negotiated a "friends with benefits" relationship. It sounds like that's what he wants, and perhaps you thought that's what you wanted as well. But now it sounds to me like you want something deeper and more meaningful.
Or perhaps you're just obsessing about him because he's unavailable, and that makes him much more attractive. You need to figure out why you want to be closer to him. Is it truly because you feel deep affection for him, or it is merely a challenge to you?
Once you determine WHY you feel to need to be closer, you might want to decide whether to tell him your feelings. If you DO tell him, and he doesn't feel the same way, it's better to find that out now before you become even MORE involved, no?
It's not easy to care deeply about someone who doesn't share your feelings, but in the long run, it will hurt less if you find this out now. Best of luck to you. Dr. J
Thank you for posting. I can't comment on any questions about astrology, but I CAN give you some potential options.
So you and your new friend have negotiated a "friends with benefits" relationship. It sounds like that's what he wants, and perhaps you thought that's what you wanted as well. But now it sounds to me like you want something deeper and more meaningful.
Or perhaps you're just obsessing about him because he's unavailable, and that makes him much more attractive. You need to figure out why you want to be closer to him. Is it truly because you feel deep affection for him, or it is merely a challenge to you?
Once you determine WHY you feel to need to be closer, you might want to decide whether to tell him your feelings. If you DO tell him, and he doesn't feel the same way, it's better to find that out now before you become even MORE involved, no?
It's not easy to care deeply about someone who doesn't share your feelings, but in the long run, it will hurt less if you find this out now. Best of luck to you. Dr. J
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