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I didn't bleed but it felt wet..

My boyfriend and I have talked of making love for quite some time and we finally decided to try it out. We finally came round to trying several times. Now I have no idea how its supposed to feel like, let alone how to tell if we really did it. I did not bleed, he would withdraw before he ejaculates, but the last time... I felt a little "wet" inside. Is it normal to have that "wet" feeling whenever your doing it?
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523042 tn?1212177895
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Hi.

I want to help you begin your sexual life with a partner in a way that's both pleasurable and safe for you.

First, you need some accurate information about being sexual--whether it's penis-vagina, oral, anal, etc. The best site for this information is www.scarleteen.com, which has a whole section devoted to "first time" experiences--what to expect, etc.

When you become sexually aroused, your vagina will lubricate--hence the wetness you felt. In fact, this lubrication can greatly enhance your sexual pleasure. However, it's also possible that you felt some wetness from your partner.

That covers the pleasure part. Now for the safe part: withdrawal IS NOT SAFE. Before a man orgasms, a small gland in his body releases a fluid that cleans out his penis from any uric acid left over from urination. This fluid can contain many millions of sperm--and it's possible that's the "wetness" you felt. For this reason, having unprotected p-v sex can be risky, both for pregnancy and STDs.

Clearly, you need more information. Please go to the Scarleteen site and read about sexual response as well as risk reduction techniques. Remember: play hot, and play safe. Best of luck to you. Dr. J
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1086863 tn?1278630315
i know the vagina tends to be wet on the inside. i would assume soemthing being wet would feel wet...

hope this helps.
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