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My virginity...
Okay...me and my boyfriend were messin' around one night. BUT...he did enter me...and I bled the next day. We were "grinding" if you will. He said I ALMOST lost my virginity..I dont think my hymen broke...but i told some chick friends of mine and they said it was a little odd that I bled and still had my virginity. I'm a little confused about it...Did he take it and I didn't know it or what?
Once a penis enters the vagina, if you are grinding or not, you have lost your virginity.
Sometimes the hymen breaks prior to intercourse as one post said, either by tampons, or just regular exercise believe it or not. Something as simple as horseback riding can break it if it is weak. It doesn't always happen by penetration. On the other hand, if you have a hymen that is extremely thick, you may have to go to the doctor to have it broken. I did not feel when my hymen broke, but it can be uncomfortabe or even painful at times.
Please be careful if you are messin' around. In my day as a teenager, the worst that could happen is that you could end up pregnant (which I did at 16). These days, sex can kill you. Just because they have pills you can take to keep you alive if you get HIV, doesn't mean its a great way to live. My daughter got genital warts when she was 19 and had to have them surgically removed twice. Its a virus that will be with her forever. She's 32 now and has had many problems with that and other STDs. Sex can be fun, but if you're playing big girl games, they definitely can come with some big girl consequences.
Debbie
Grandma to 10 :o)
Sometimes the hymen breaks prior to intercourse as one post said, either by tampons, or just regular exercise believe it or not. Something as simple as horseback riding can break it if it is weak. It doesn't always happen by penetration. On the other hand, if you have a hymen that is extremely thick, you may have to go to the doctor to have it broken. I did not feel when my hymen broke, but it can be uncomfortabe or even painful at times.
Please be careful if you are messin' around. In my day as a teenager, the worst that could happen is that you could end up pregnant (which I did at 16). These days, sex can kill you. Just because they have pills you can take to keep you alive if you get HIV, doesn't mean its a great way to live. My daughter got genital warts when she was 19 and had to have them surgically removed twice. Its a virus that will be with her forever. She's 32 now and has had many problems with that and other STDs. Sex can be fun, but if you're playing big girl games, they definitely can come with some big girl consequences.
Debbie
Grandma to 10 :o)
You weren't really specific. Was his penis in you while you were "grinding"? If so, yeah, you aren't a virgin. Some girls hymens are already broken before the first time they have sex (due to tampons, etc.), so that isn't really an indication of virginity. If he was moving around in you to the point where you bled, I would consider that more than "entering" you.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Hello:
Yes, if your boyfriend's penis was in your vagina (p-v sex), you’re no longer a virgin, and you now need to be sure to use both birth control and risk reduction. The last thing you need at your age is pregnancy or an STD, right? The other thing to ask yourself is whether you're ready to take on these responsibilities. If not, then you definitely need to limit your sexual activities with him. There are lots of fun ways to be sexual without putting yourself at risk; for instance, mutual self-pleasuring, oral sex and manual stimulation. You can play together and be safe together. Is this an option for you, or are you feeling pressured into p-v sex? If so, maybe you need to look at whether he truly cares for you. Lastly: If you have a physician, it’s time for a check-up, just to be safe. If not, I recommend you call your local Planned Parenthood. They provide excellent services. Good luck! Dr. J
Yes, if your boyfriend's penis was in your vagina (p-v sex), you’re no longer a virgin, and you now need to be sure to use both birth control and risk reduction. The last thing you need at your age is pregnancy or an STD, right? The other thing to ask yourself is whether you're ready to take on these responsibilities. If not, then you definitely need to limit your sexual activities with him. There are lots of fun ways to be sexual without putting yourself at risk; for instance, mutual self-pleasuring, oral sex and manual stimulation. You can play together and be safe together. Is this an option for you, or are you feeling pressured into p-v sex? If so, maybe you need to look at whether he truly cares for you. Lastly: If you have a physician, it’s time for a check-up, just to be safe. If not, I recommend you call your local Planned Parenthood. They provide excellent services. Good luck! Dr. J
dude man show some respect. go grow some balls before you start critisizing a chick you don't even know
u r sick and disgussting,
in fact ur an unimaginable *******
in fact ur an unimaginable *******
This girl is going through enough just trying to grow up and become a woman... you don't need to treat her with such disrespect. She's asking for advice and education not criticism and chastising.
Bravo slow_healer.
These prudes deserve just this kind of handling.
Zeeshan. You really are sick.
I won't remind you what this forum is all about. I will just tell you what it is NOT about:
1) It is not against any religion but it is also not about religion.
2) It is not about denying help to those who seek anonymous support.
3) It is not about being judgmental about some one else's life.
4) It is not about showing pettiness in way that one individual makes the entire community a matter of laughter. In this point that someone is you and you have made a marvelous, forgiving and encompassing religion look so petty.
Really, shame on you.
These prudes deserve just this kind of handling.
Zeeshan. You really are sick.
I won't remind you what this forum is all about. I will just tell you what it is NOT about:
1) It is not against any religion but it is also not about religion.
2) It is not about denying help to those who seek anonymous support.
3) It is not about being judgmental about some one else's life.
4) It is not about showing pettiness in way that one individual makes the entire community a matter of laughter. In this point that someone is you and you have made a marvelous, forgiving and encompassing religion look so petty.
Really, shame on you.
This is not a religious forum.
Besides, what would your God think of you cruising these websites to read stories about other people's sexlives?
Besides, what would your God think of you cruising these websites to read stories about other people's sexlives?
If his penis entered your virgina whether he ejaculated or not, you lost your virginity. My suggestion now would be to look into some form of birth control and practice safe sex.
i think u have lost ur virgin no problem tell him to coitus with u
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Millions of people are diagnosed with STDs in the U.S. each year.
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
Discharge often isn't normal, and could mean an infection or an STD.
STDs aren't transmitted through clothing. Fabric is a germ barrier.
Normal vaginal discharge varies in color, smell, texture and amount.
