PAINFUL ORGASM???

[SUR13]

well, today while driving with my boyfriend, he mentions burning after sex with me lately...  he said he could feel that something was wrong with me because he is inside me and something felt wrong. weird right? then he mentions that it burns after he orgasms, and a little when he urinates after...  how would i not know that something is wrong with MY VAGINA!?!? i know i dont have an std, i get tested and am very careful.  we dont use protection, but we have ben together for a while now, and i havent been with anyone but him... why does it burn after orgasms for him and while urinating??  HELP?!? is it me or him? advice? thank you so much i need answers! i dont even want to have sex until i know whats going on, and we have amazing sex haha so someone help a girl out! thanks! xo

[Janice M Epp, PhD]

Hello.

First, no one can tell either you or your boyfriend what's going on without a complete examination. I urge you to see your gynecologist ASAP to determine whether you have an infection, and your boyfriend should see a urologist for the same reason.

There are many factors that can contribute to pain--both physiological and psychological. Some possibilities are: infections, irritations due to lotions or soaps, and not enough lubrication.

Please don't be so naive as to think that just because you've been tested for STDs, you or your boyfriend haven't developed one. It's entirely possible, so do see your doc to find out what's going on. Dr. J.

[jowo92]

hunny if you have sex very often it can rub and make him, you, or both very sore try a couple weeks going with out!