I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years. He is a very sweet, generous, and very loving person. Everything is perfect between us, except for our sex life. When we first dated, we had sex almost everyday for the first two months, then once a week, once every two week and for the last two year, we only have sex once every month or every month and a half. And I am the one who initiated it every time. I have tried to let this problem pass since we get along on everything else and he is a wonderful person to be with. But I find it really hard to deal with it. We have talked about this problem couple times, and he said because he is getting older he doesn't want it as much. Sometimes i wonder if he is gay and he said no. Anyway, I am at the age that I think about sex almost everyday and want to do it at least few times a week. It is getting really hard emotionally because I can't masturbate to help with my physical need.
I don't know what I can do to help our sex life to get better. I love him and want to be with him for the rest of my life, so I really want to solve this problem between us. Any information or suggestion is greatly appreciated.