sex with mothers boyfriend

[suzze]

I need someone to help me. I don’t know what I should do
I will start by telling you that I never had a father, he went when I was born and I have never seen him. I have lived all the time with my mother and because she had to work we have moved many times to different houses in other cities. We have been poor but have lived good. I have never been busted and just have two warning from Juvo. for bein out late when I was yung
Mum had some boyfriends but until the last one none have stayed at our home. When he moved in I was really jelous and did not like him at all. He was nice to me and after a while we came as friends
Mums work is in the evening and “Mod” (not his real name) and I do some house chores and cook our evening meal together. At first working together we would sometime touch each other but soon this became a game and we would often touch and rub. We would eat the meal and clean-up then sit watching TV or a video. One night he came behind me, held my breast and kissed my neck. From there on I caused it to happen for while we were kissing I said to him that it would be alright if he wanted to do it to me as I had already had sex with two of my boyfriends before and wanted it now, that was the start of us having sex
It was not easy for us when we started but now we have been doing it all the time for half a year more. I love him and our sex is like Yea  *****  I want and need him all the time. There are many things that make him good for me but they are personell and some one might think it is porno if I write about it
What can I do. I cant live without him. I dream of marrying him I dream of sharing him with my mother as a family together but if she finds out it will be like serious. I am sure she would not agree.
Do not tell me that I am a stupid teen. I have done more of life than others two times my age. Do not tell me that Mod is using me as we love each other and I was the one who started it and he does not make me do it. I want sex and I want him

[tabasko]

Chances are that your mother already knows whats being going on.all this .A smart woman can tell by their man and you the daughter.......good luck

[Janice M Epp, PhD]

The last part of my comment was left off, so I'm including it here:

There's a reason why you chose to have sex with your mother's boyfriend. It could be that you feel lonely or unimportant--or it could be any number of things. The important thing is that you need to figure out why you did this; because otherwise, this pattern will continue throughout your life--and it can be very destructive. Please find a counselor with whom you can talk, so you can decide on the best course of action for you. Best of luck to you.

[Janice M Epp, PhD]

OK. Fine. I won’t tell you anything. So what are you asking? You’ve already made your decision. Now live with it. You say you’re very experienced, but it doesn’t seem you’ve learned anything from your experience.

I won’t tell you that you’re a “stupid teen.” You’ve created this situation, and it’s your responsibility. So if you feel you’re a responsible adult, you need to start acting like one. With sex, comes responsibility, and that means being honest with your mother, regardless of the consequences. Are you prepared to do that? It could mean the end of your relationship with her, and it could also mean the end of your relationship with her boyfriend.

Or you can continue to act like a child and sneak around. Your choice. Dr. J