Your boyfriend might be too tired to have that kind of sexual activity. I think any guy doing physically or mentally intense labor has been there. If you really want to get off that badly then talk to him to find a compromise like a previous person mentioned.
sure he isnt gay? Are his hands too clean? Does he like to read and watch drama? Is style very important to him?
You can take care of yourself, find another guy or pack your vagina away.
There are plenty of guys out there that would like to be with you
Why in the world would you ever want to stop having the desire ?
you can control it, but its a natural need of our body.. so if he doesn't do something about it you can use sex toys at home if you want to get rid of your libido.
Hello.
I'm afraid you have some unrealistic expectations. First, let's look at the facts:
1. You and your bf have different levels of desire. This is fairly common among couples, just like having different tastes in food. And what do we do? Usually, we compromise. If one likes pizza, and the other likes steak, we trade off or we got to a restaurant that serves both. In terms of sexual needs and desires, it's possible to work out the same kind of agreement. You'll need to talk with your bf about this in a non-confrontational manner and find out how often he'd like to be sexual with you.
2. If you find yourself wanting to be sexual more often than he, why not use that as your own private sexual time for checking in with yourself? If you put it all on him that he has to be the one to satisfy your desires, that's putting a lot of strain on the relationship.
3. Why are you so willing and eager to try to change your fundamental nature? There's no pill that will change your desire. It might help you to look at what purpose sex is serving for you and what you want out of this relationship. Best of luck to you. Dr. J