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Sometimes it takes me a long time, but I do get there- when it becomes problematic, I revert to my favorite sexual position, which rarely fails for me... probably a little boring for my wife, but for whatever reason, I often have trouble having an orgasm when not in my preferred sexual position.
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Hello. There are many reasons why a man may not have an orgasm during sex.
One possibility is that you may actually be feeling the sensations but blocking them out because of some emotional issue such as anxiety, anger, resentment, etc.
Sometimes when men no longer have the erections they expect to have, they interpret this as a lack of feeling when, in reality, it’s merely that the sensations have changed to something unfamiliar. Of course, condoms can also reduce sensation. Ah ha! Have you thought of that? Try finding the thinnest condom you can and then experiment with it during self-pleasuring.
It’s also possible that you had a condition which temporarily interfered with sensation, but once you became anxious and your confidence disappeared, you started worrying so much that it became a vicious circle: the more you worried, the more your penis refused to cooperate. Not to worry; lots of men have overcome this concern.
There’s probably nothing wrong with you. You’ve just convinced yourself there’s something amiss, and now you’ve created a vicious circle. As soon as your penis didn’t do exactly what you wanted, you started to worry. Sex is all about what’s going on in your head. The more you worry, the more your penis isn’t going to cooperate. In fact, it can be downright rebellious! You need to relax. If someone tells you NOT to think of elephants, what’s the first thing you think about? That’s right. Elephants. Think about these issues and see if any are true for you. Best of luck to you. Dr. J
One possibility is that you may actually be feeling the sensations but blocking them out because of some emotional issue such as anxiety, anger, resentment, etc.
Sometimes when men no longer have the erections they expect to have, they interpret this as a lack of feeling when, in reality, it’s merely that the sensations have changed to something unfamiliar. Of course, condoms can also reduce sensation. Ah ha! Have you thought of that? Try finding the thinnest condom you can and then experiment with it during self-pleasuring.
It’s also possible that you had a condition which temporarily interfered with sensation, but once you became anxious and your confidence disappeared, you started worrying so much that it became a vicious circle: the more you worried, the more your penis refused to cooperate. Not to worry; lots of men have overcome this concern.
There’s probably nothing wrong with you. You’ve just convinced yourself there’s something amiss, and now you’ve created a vicious circle. As soon as your penis didn’t do exactly what you wanted, you started to worry. Sex is all about what’s going on in your head. The more you worry, the more your penis isn’t going to cooperate. In fact, it can be downright rebellious! You need to relax. If someone tells you NOT to think of elephants, what’s the first thing you think about? That’s right. Elephants. Think about these issues and see if any are true for you. Best of luck to you. Dr. J
Maybe ur not satisfying enough
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