6 Wks ago my boyfriend and i broke up, due to lack of communication also we weren't having sex. We got back together and went to couples counseling, we started learning to communicate. We discussed why he preferred to masturbate instead of having sex with me, he said he was just being lazy. Everything was going well until our counselor made our homework go home and get naked and try to work on it. He was too tired that day. Two days later after a few shots of Jaegermeister he sat me down and told me the truth. He was addicted to masturbation, He didn't want to have sex with me because he felt since the only thing that turned him on was porn or fantasies that was using me the person he loved in a dirty way. Tried to talk to him about it, he said later when he was sober. Next day everything was fine, his bank made a mistake on his balance and he flipped out. Since my son was there, I told him when he calmed down to let me know and I would come back over. He wouldn't speak to me for three days. We set up a time to talk after I initiated via text. Showed up to talk, he wanted to drink and I realized nothing was going to be discussed, I figured wait til morning. When I got up the next day, I tried to talk. He said he didn't want to talk, that it was over. We've been seeing each other for 1o months, but other than this issue, he's great, the perfect guy.He's never been real affectionate or liked to be touched to much, but he said it was how he was raised. But after web sites on sexual addiction I am finding out this is a symptom of sexual anorexia. His only other ltr ended when she cheated on him, same reason. I really don't know what to do... Should I try to get back with him or just give up. Is there hope....help.Any input is appreciated.