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is this normal

I never actually have sex before and untill now...But sometimes my bf put his finger into my virgina...and 4 months ago, i did bleed a little like a small spot and couples days ago, it happened again...we been doin that for a while but i dun know why it bleeds like that..it doesnt bleed a lot...just so little...im so worried right now...can anybody help me out???
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523042 tn?1212177895
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Hello.

What you're describing is probably the result of your hymen tearing from penetration--whether by finger or penis or any other object. Some women no longer have hymens because of extreme physical activity, while others retain the tissue until first penetration. After all the tissue is removed, the bleeding should stop. Another possibility is that your partner has long nails or jewelry that is causing abrasions.

Also be sure you're very turned on and use lots of lubrication before any sort of penetrative sex; lack of lubrication can cause irritation. And remember: with great sex comes great responsibility, so be sure to use risk reduction to protect you from pregnancy, STI's, etc.

Naturally, if you're still bleeding after a few weeks, you should see your gynecologist for a check-up. Best of luck to you. Dr. J
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971283 tn?1247767572
Hello Cici,

I can see that you would be concerned..I think you should see a Dr. or go to maybe a Clinic who will examine you. The good thing is you're not having Pain and heavy bleeding..
Please do that for your self, also always make sure your boyfriend or husband's hands are well cleaned and also that he's not injuring you with sharp Nails or jewelry.  

Once you get the exam, you will feel much better..

I hope you do this soon..

My best

D
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