just concern about this

[fecteaun]

just wondering if i should be worried about this,everytime me and my boyfriend have intercourse when he enters me it hurst like its the first time i have sex prob worse,and when were done i bleed a little bit like spots will be on my underwear after ,is that sthing that i should be worrie about and what can cause that? should i go see a doctor? cause its like the 4 time this happens,hope you can let me know soon ,
thank you

[Ookami11]

I had a friend that had that problem. She lubricated well and there seemed to be nothing wrong until she began having intercourse with her boyfriend (she continued intercourse because she like the pain/pleasure of initial penetration). At a checkup she discovered that her hymen had not been torn completely and that was causing the pain and blood. I would talk to your gyn about seeing if your hymen is still partially intact just as an option for your problem.

[Janice M Epp, PhD]

Hello. There are many possible causes of your pain and/or bleeding. The most common is that you aren’t wet enough. This is a reminder to only have sex when YOU'RE ready. Be sure that: 1) you’re turned on when your partner enters you and 2) you’re lubricated. If you ARE turned on, but are still dry, there are several excellent lubricants available. Some women also experience pain and/or bleeding if they engage in penis-vagina sex for too long or if the thrusting is too hard or vigorous. If none of these is the case, other possible causes are various infections, certain medications, perfumed soaps which can irritate tissue and urinary tract infections. It’s a good idea to see your gynecologist for a check-up to find out if any of these is contributing to your pain . Dr. J

[jml1986]

I would say you are probably dry and are tearing a little. If you need to, use some type of lubricant.