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sexual problems
hi , i got married before a mounth and i have no experience in this subject so i dont know where i am ? im in the right way or not ?
doctor the thing is when i have a sexiual realashionship i have a lot of pain that we cant continue , that happens to me sometimes and another times its just little pain but i never had a blood although im virgin but how come? , is that happining usually ?
sometimes we can go on sometimes from my pain we cant go on , my husbend is good and he understands me but i would like to know whats my problem ? why i have this pain ? because im still virgin ? or it depends on the kind of the hymen ? i dont know , i have no clue to tell u the truth , so i am new imigrant and i still cant have my health insuranse because of that its hard to me , and because of that i need your advise
thank you so much
and sorry for bothering u
doctor the thing is when i have a sexiual realashionship i have a lot of pain that we cant continue , that happens to me sometimes and another times its just little pain but i never had a blood although im virgin but how come? , is that happining usually ?
sometimes we can go on sometimes from my pain we cant go on , my husbend is good and he understands me but i would like to know whats my problem ? why i have this pain ? because im still virgin ? or it depends on the kind of the hymen ? i dont know , i have no clue to tell u the truth , so i am new imigrant and i still cant have my health insuranse because of that its hard to me , and because of that i need your advise
thank you so much
and sorry for bothering u
i had same probblem when i was get marry, the 1st few month had difficulties to do a intercorse my wife always telling me her vergin is paining the real thing was i faild many time becuse couldnt insert my pein in to vergin one thing is ver ealy day its very tite .i have apply many thing as lubricat to get it easy but nothing happen finally we went to doctor and she checked my vergin and done small sergeory to cut the vegin then its become ok then we had lot sex from that date
If there are no medical related causes, you might try engaging in some sensual massage as part of your foreplay. There are some lubicants that can also be used as a massage lotion. It will help you to relax and be more receptive to stimulation of the erogenous areas of your body. Making your sex play about more than just penetration usually leads to greater sexual satisfaction.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
You may be experiencing pain during penis-vagina (p-v) sex because you’re not aroused enough and therefore, you’re not lubricated.
If you’re not aroused enough during p-v, you’ll be dry, and your tissues can get irritated, so be sure you’re both turned on and wet. If you ARE aroused but aren’t wet enough, check out the many excellent lubes available at your local drugstore. You want one that has no alcohol or perfume (alcohol irritates those delicate membranes).
If you’re not aroused, it’s probably because you’re not getting enough clitoral stimulation during p-v. A major difference between women and men is that generally, the clitoris needs constant direct or indirect stimulation, unlike the penis. For most women, orgasm results from a constant circular motion around the shaft and glans (or head) of the clitoris. Also important is that once a woman’s orgasm begins, if the stimulation is removed, the orgasm will end. In contrast, once men have that first orgasmic contraction, not even a neutron bomb will stop their orgasm!
While many women enjoy p-v sex, for at least 40-50% of them, it usually doesn’t result in orgasm. Why? Because most p-v sex doesn’t provide the steady pressure and reliable stimulation women need for orgasm. During p-v sex, most men use an “in-out” motion that feels great for them, instead of the circular grinding motion that will stimulate the clitoris. So how about trading off once in awhile? Him first; then you—or vice-versa?
As far as bleeding, one can tell you why that’s happening without doing a complete physical exam. Since you don’t have health insurance, I suggest you find your closest women’s clinic and make an appointment as soon as possible. Most clinics are either free or low-cost. Your health is important, and if you ignore it, you may be at risk for any number of complications.
To find your nearest clinic, try using your search engine and inputting “(name of your city/town here) women’s health clinic” Best of luck to you. Dr. J
If you’re not aroused enough during p-v, you’ll be dry, and your tissues can get irritated, so be sure you’re both turned on and wet. If you ARE aroused but aren’t wet enough, check out the many excellent lubes available at your local drugstore. You want one that has no alcohol or perfume (alcohol irritates those delicate membranes).
If you’re not aroused, it’s probably because you’re not getting enough clitoral stimulation during p-v. A major difference between women and men is that generally, the clitoris needs constant direct or indirect stimulation, unlike the penis. For most women, orgasm results from a constant circular motion around the shaft and glans (or head) of the clitoris. Also important is that once a woman’s orgasm begins, if the stimulation is removed, the orgasm will end. In contrast, once men have that first orgasmic contraction, not even a neutron bomb will stop their orgasm!
While many women enjoy p-v sex, for at least 40-50% of them, it usually doesn’t result in orgasm. Why? Because most p-v sex doesn’t provide the steady pressure and reliable stimulation women need for orgasm. During p-v sex, most men use an “in-out” motion that feels great for them, instead of the circular grinding motion that will stimulate the clitoris. So how about trading off once in awhile? Him first; then you—or vice-versa?
As far as bleeding, one can tell you why that’s happening without doing a complete physical exam. Since you don’t have health insurance, I suggest you find your closest women’s clinic and make an appointment as soon as possible. Most clinics are either free or low-cost. Your health is important, and if you ignore it, you may be at risk for any number of complications.
To find your nearest clinic, try using your search engine and inputting “(name of your city/town here) women’s health clinic” Best of luck to you. Dr. J
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