Hello
Let me ask you a question: If someone wanted you to do something that you didn't want to do, how would YOU feel if they wrote to me and asked me to tell them how to manipulate you into doing something against your will?
I'm wondering why you aren't honoring your girlfriend's wishes. Aren't her feelings important to you? Ask yourself WHY this is so important to you. Perhaps you think this is some sign that your relationship is progressing or that it means she cares for you. In fact, it may be just the opposite: she may want to go slow because she cares deeply about you. Dr. J