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my wife, 44 first sexual experence at 17 was with her b-friend with his friend and younger brother watching. She can't climax to this day unless she fantisies about this experence and wants us to wave someone watch us have sex. Could this harm a strong marrage?
I had a friend who was involved in an amature live webcam porn thing....basically he and his GF would have sex on webcam.
They could get off on being watched, but no one was actually intruding into their relationship. Maybe something like that would be a compromise you could both feel comfortable with. ??
They could get off on being watched, but no one was actually intruding into their relationship. Maybe something like that would be a compromise you could both feel comfortable with. ??
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Hello.
This is not a “one-size-fits-all” situation. No one can predict what’s going to happen in your marriage. Some couples are able to successfully incorporate another person into their sexual relationships, provided they have strong communication skills and lots of trust. For others, it doesn’t work at all due to jealousy, fears, etc.
So guess what I’m going to suggest? Talk about it. The fact that you’re willing to consider it shows that you are flexible and open-minded. This is a good thing and is probably one of the reasons your relationship is strong. Before you discuss this with your wife, you need to decide how YOU personally feel about having someone else watch you two being sexual. You need to identify what will work best for you. What are the pros and cons for you? What are your fears?
There are also some management issues to consider, such as whether someone else will be willing to just watch and not participate, and how you’ll deal with it if they try to join in. You’ll need to be able to effectively communicate to this person just what you two want. And lastly, you’ll need to find someone you can trust. I’d also suggest you do an online search of the words “open relationships.” Although you’re not in an open relationship per se, there’s lots of helpful information about managing sexual issues listed under this subject. Good luck! Dr. J
This is not a “one-size-fits-all” situation. No one can predict what’s going to happen in your marriage. Some couples are able to successfully incorporate another person into their sexual relationships, provided they have strong communication skills and lots of trust. For others, it doesn’t work at all due to jealousy, fears, etc.
So guess what I’m going to suggest? Talk about it. The fact that you’re willing to consider it shows that you are flexible and open-minded. This is a good thing and is probably one of the reasons your relationship is strong. Before you discuss this with your wife, you need to decide how YOU personally feel about having someone else watch you two being sexual. You need to identify what will work best for you. What are the pros and cons for you? What are your fears?
There are also some management issues to consider, such as whether someone else will be willing to just watch and not participate, and how you’ll deal with it if they try to join in. You’ll need to be able to effectively communicate to this person just what you two want. And lastly, you’ll need to find someone you can trust. I’d also suggest you do an online search of the words “open relationships.” Although you’re not in an open relationship per se, there’s lots of helpful information about managing sexual issues listed under this subject. Good luck! Dr. J
I have worked with couples with this issue. It can be useful to use such a situation to get to the real issue, after other attempts at resolution have failed, but it really helps to have the right people, with a lot of awareness, to have a good outcome. Otherwise it can possible intensify the issue rather than resolving it.
Almost definitely. Who would you feel comfortable watching you comfortably over a long time? It means bringing more people into intimate parts of your life over a long term.
Build the fanasy but don't live it unless you keep a good attorney on retainer and have a pre-nup.\
Short term it might be fun but the reality would go bad quick.
Build the fanasy but don't live it unless you keep a good attorney on retainer and have a pre-nup.\
Short term it might be fun but the reality would go bad quick.
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