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I had my baby Feb.11. My baby daddy got a gf Jan 29th. She hasn't been around the baby yet. He only sees the baby with me since I am EBF. I am going back to work in June. What is a good amount of time before his gf is around my baby? And how do I deal with the anxiety I am already feeling about another female being in my daughters life?
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He's the father. Not much you can do about it. Make sure the kid knows who mom is and that's that. Other females will be in your daughters life the second you put her in daycare, or in school, or anywhere really. There will be other women in her life the second you need a babysitter, a housekeeper, or even  as soon as your female friends come over. You can't protect her from other women, whether they are dating her father or not. Stop being silly.
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