Try vaping. It worked for a friend of mine. It hasnt worked for me because Im still addicted to cigarettes - so I dont think its fool proof, but I definitely know several people who quit with Vaping
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I don’t believe that a person doesn’t have the right to demand someone at least try to quit, when it is affecting you big time. My husband could go blind, due to smoking, his smoking has already made me toxic for nicotene (I was tested). I believe that an “intervention” to get him into some kind of program is perfectly acceptable. My husband is affecting me physically, and financially. To say that you should support him when he won’t even try is hogwash (only my opinion)
the financial thing worked for a friend of mine!
Get the book by Allen Carr, The Easy Way to Stop Smoking. It worked on me and my in-laws. My husband refuses to read it so I completely empathize your frustration. My husband is very immature and all his friends smoke, and his work actually rewards him for smoking. Hopefully your husband isn't as bad and will give the book a try. Amazon has it, hardcover, for around $10. Good luck!
He smokes the generic brands, ugh. That's his excuse. He's also cut way down. I've tried the whole nagging, guilt trips, encouraging, etc. All I can do now is pray. He won't quit till he's ready.
you might also try the financial angle---put that "cig" money into college funds for the kids----probably won't work either, but just a thought. Myself, I wish they cost at least $50 a pack----would people still pay this??????
I really don't mean to sound harsh but the reality is that you really don't need any additional statistics. He already has them 2 parents smoked 2 parents died from smoking that is a 100% death rate in his immediate family from smoking. Every family is different. I have one of those families where everyone lives to be 100 without illness no matter what they did. Others like my husbands and yours aren't so lucky. He has the stats and right now he just does not want to quit.
As I see it the best you can do is tell him you care. It really stinks but that is addiction people that are addicted chose it over love and family everyday. I do wish you the best.
I guess when I asked about statistics I was wondering if because of his family history he will just be following in their footsteps. I just don't understand why that doesn't seem to affect him. I mean BOTH of his parents died from smoking related diseases! You would think that would make him think, you know? If he had better genes then maybe I wouldn't be as concerned. I mean, George Burns smoked cigars until he was what, 90 or something? But he probably had strong family genes to back him up.
I know my family genes aren't too good either. It does make me think.
I was just wondering if this increased his odds of getting the emphasyma or lung cancer since his parents had that or if that was purely from their habits? I don't know if something like that could be hereditary.
I know I can't make him quit. He is in such denial. He doesn't even want to talk about it. I just don't want to find him dead someday, you know? I guess there's not much I can do. It's encouraging that he has cut down. I just wish he'd take it to that next step.
Thanks everybody,
April
The truth is, there is absolutely nothing you can do or say that is going to make him quit. He has to want to do it and when that happens, then you can support him.
I smoked for 38 years and EVERYONE begged me to stop, gave me all the reasons why I should want to quit, but I needed to want to quit for myself. On my 50th b'day I joined the gym and decided that I would try. It took me 2 years to finally suceed and today I celebrate my one year anniversary!
You might want to show him the "Motivation" at whyquit.com It's vert scary and it shows just how vunerable smokers are, but you really have to let him decide, sorry.
Good luck and be patient : )
Kathy Jo
By the way, that wasn't a curse word, lol. I don't know why MH deletes the word c r a p. So, I was saying I don't know why that didn't scare the c r a p out of him.