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So Sensitive?! Why Sensitivity Is A Gift

by Carolyn Coleridge, MSW

You are too sensitive. Don't be so sensitive! Many people on the spiritual path have heard this criticism over and over again. It is usually meant as a put-down to someone who has a high sense of intuition and a sixth sense 'knowing'. This comment is usually stated with disdain and contempt as a major flaw in an individual's personality. In fact many lightworkers have heard these words, especially as children and it has caused them to close down this gift. "Toughen up..you need thicker skin", usually follows as a comment quickly after to shame and dismiss the individuals' perceptions.

Sensitives are usually quite gifted intuitive spirits as they pick up the less perceived sensations of life. Lightworkers on the planet have heard this comment a lot because they are generally trying to raise their vibrations as they evolve towards spiritual mastery. If you are on a conscious spiritual path you become more intuitive. Intuition, I believe, is God's voice. To hear it you must be sensitive. Spirit speaks to us daily in quiet synchronistic whispers. Sensitives have the ability to perceive the subtle nuances of truth in the physical plane. Hopefully they pick these signals up, follow them and begin to connect to their soul's conscious growth and begin to live more fulfilling and abundant lives.

Lightworkers, who are Spiritual teachers and healers, or those seeking truth, have a conscious plan to raise the vibration of the planet and bring in more positive qualities of kindness, goodness, love and compassion. They also have to balance the warring yin and yang energies that are on the planet. Yin, the more feminine principle is receptive, intuitive, nurturing and healing. Yang the more active principle is assertive, pioneering, instinctual and creative. When harmonious, these energies dance together manifesting birth and death, darkness and light. In conflict they create, evil, abuse, terror and chaos. You must have both energies co-creating to move toward wholeness in the physical realm.

As a psychotherapist and healer for the last ten years, I have noticed that sensitive people are often the ones who are emotionally abused by others. Their sensitivity is viewed as a weakness. Intuitive sensitives are sometimes the kinder spirits who fight for animals' rights, want to spread peace or speak out against child abuse. Since they have been criticized for just being who they are, they often close down and lead sad isolated lives of denying emotions in their soul. The bullies and the abusers, entities that are heralding the dark energies, don't want to lose their ego oriented existence, so they harass the sensitives so they can keep the veil of darkness alive. The ego thrives on chaos. The sensitives are here to pull the curtain back on the wizard, to reveal the trickster and shine a light on the darkness. Mother Earth and Father God are asking us to start speaking the truth to restore heaven on earth. It is the mission of many, you have heard the call, now it is time to honor your gift of sensitivity. Sensitive people will bring this planet towards a higher vibration. So we need the armies of sensitives to trust their guts, create their dreams, fulfill their missions and listen to the intuitive voice of God and not the abusive voice of the darkness. You were made sensitive for reason, be proud of it!

The universe is supporting you, but sensitives must protect themselves from the harsh energies on the planet. Here are some easy ways to do this.

1) Trust your Gut and start to believe the still small voice that is inside of you. Praise yourself when you intuit something and you were right. Always honor your spirit.

2) Speak your truth. Sensitives must not hold in their emotions. It becomes toxic to their bodies as negative feelings lay dormant in the body temple. Let out the negativity in constructive healing ways.

3) Protect yourself from negative energies. This can be removing toxic people from your life. Getting out of abusive relationships or situations. Trying to be more positive and inspiring to others instead of critical and pessimistic.

4) Meditate regularly, with grounding exercises. Meditation raises your vibrations and heightens your intuition. You begin to get stronger with your gut instincts and receive more messages on how to create your life purpose. As you live your life purpose, you feel less tired and depressed and more uplifted. Your sensitivity becomes a gift as you now have a focus and reason for being here.

5) Connect with God. Say prayers and ask God questions. What do you want me to learn today? What is the higher purpose of this? How can I serve? God likes to hear us speak to him/her. I believe he created us so she could see his/her own expression and become more inspired… so don't leave him hanging!

6) Receive energy work. Reiki, pranic healing, acupuncture, or massage. Sensitives must work with their energies and remove toxins that build up in their energy fields. It is like a shower for your auric field. Sage and incense also clears energy in your home, since sensitives have a tendency to be psychic sponges, you need to remove the maladaptive energies. Don't forget about getting into nature, a great energy clearer.

7) Find your life purpose. You are sensitive for one reason..to hear the source. God has a plan for everyone on this planet and it mostly coincides with yours. The more sensitive you are the more likely you have a heightened antennae to the source. Don't cloud that transmission. Tune in to KGOD- Keep Good Open Dialogue. It's a great Radio station that can help you feel fulfilled -. receive your daily inspirational messages.

8) Keep the Yin and Yang Balanced, especially the qualities of Gratitude and Forgiveness. Gratitude, puts you in a positive space to attract better outcomes. And like the Yin energy, pulls in better life outcomes. Forgiveness is about actively releasing negative energy. To give forth. The yang is about actively releasing stagnant emotions. Energy must be in balance for lightworkers and sensitives. There has to be a flow. Leave the swamps for the egoic alligators of the world. Stuck in their own muck.

With the light acceleration on the planet, sensitivity is absolutely necessary to listen and pull down the higher vibrations. These vibrations are full of light and love and of beautiful qualities .To be an open channel to divine expression, whether it be art, music, writing or inspiration you must be sensitive. So next time, someone criticizes you by saying, "You are so sensitive!" Say yes, I need to be to hear God's voice, it is the quiet whisper on the planet and I don't want to miss my loving instructions. Unlike you I don't want to mute the sound! Okay you can be a little nicer than that, but they will get the point. Yes I am soo sensitive that I hear and live the truth. Much love and blessings lightworkers!

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1348302 tn?1286579303
I must have missed this before.  I like this, I  think there is a lot of good stuff in here.

One thing in particlar that jumps out at me is the part about gratitude.  It is interesting to me to ponder the difference between gratitude, and thankfullnes, or appreciation.  They are all kind of similar, but gratitude has a certain nuance that is really hard to express in language.

Does this strike anyone else similarly?
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I just had an interesting lesson in sensivity here on Medhelp.  I knew yesterday morning when I first posted this, that a mistake was made when it showed up in Current Events. (I had several tabs open in browser and thought I put it here first.  I couldn't take it back out, but re-posted it here where it should have been to begin with.  I went off to work and later when I got back & got online, I saw that April had responded in the CE group to it.  I replied that I mistakenly posted it there and replied to what she wrote.  Others wrote & it was well received, or so I thought...till about 15 min. or so ago when I got on for the first time today & read my message from the moderator.  I had to send a reply message re-explaining what happened.  It had been removed, which didn't bother me anyway as it was never meant to be there to begin with.  Interesting that it got more responses than it did here.  You are the first to reply on this.  

I think a lot of sensitive people won't reply because they are not sure what to say, or if it will be received in a good way.  I know there are times i don't say anything because someone else said something that was pretty much what I would have said or I think they said it better or that I am not sure that it won't be taken in a wrong way.

We have letter of the law people who fault find anything that doesn't fit the criteria and leave no leeway for mistakes and we have others who don't care who, what, where and when.....interesting how people perceive things.

Personally, I treasure those who are forgiving and understanding and who encourage others to be the best they can be and find ways to say...don't give up or maybe take a break and try again, or have you thought about doing it "this way" or "that way"...but it is your choice.

It is a good topic because we live in a changing society where we are not to favor one religion over another or race over another, yet those who are highly sensitive can see through the facades in the law and how people find other ways to disguise their intentions so they won't be easily detected.  

I will not throw the Bible out because there is so much truth about "motives" etc.and it is very convicting.  One example being how Jesus vented against the pharisees who cared more about "appearances" than how they were on the inside.  They devised rules, etc. to keep others out....they wanted to maintain control and be in charge.  They truly believed their way was right.

City ordinances...say you have to do this/that ...example:  paint is chipping and you get a letter telling you that you have so many days to get something in the works to get your house, etc. painted.  You can ask for an extension & give the reasons why, but do they care that you cannot afford it?  Do they care you will have to get a loan and go into debt?  Where is the compassion?  Oh, if you can't afford it, you should have it?

With that kind of reasoning, none of us should have anything because we are not perfect and we lose our tempers, and make mistakes, make wrong choices that lead to someone being hurt.  Oh, but then what is the percentage rate?  Some have made "less" choices, hurt "less".....and so goes on.  What is the point?

Meanwhile, city is broke and crime is up and people are discouraged as jobs are practically non-existent. Less police officers to patrol areas...less teachers so more kids crammed into rooms receiving less help.  So they focus on what they can do to keep the image up, but the true things going on that are breaking down the structure go untended for many reasons.

Makes me think of what Jesus said about them being "white-washed tombs (sepulchres)"  He had strong words of admonition.  They didn't have "love" for people.  It was about their image, their position and their control.

We need a good understanding of what sensitivity is and how it can best be used for everyone's benefit.  We do have different personality types and it helps to understand them so we can work differences out :-)
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I was wondering where that thread went! I never did see what you responded back to me. Why was it removed? Was it considered too religious for that CE forum or something?
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Actually it was.  I had responded & told you I mistakeningly posted it there as I had several tabs open & it was 5 a.m. in the morning before work....lol. I couldn't retract it but reposted here & then went to work. Some others put replies & so I thought it was ok there.  Yesterday when I got on, I saw a message from Steve that it wasn't current events.  I sent him a message explaining what happened & saw that the thread had been removed.  End of story....lol.

It is a good subject and one that we run into a lot from lack of sensitivity to being accused of being over-sensitive.  

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............"I will not throw the Bible out because there is so much truth about "motives" etc.and it is very convicting.  One example being how Jesus vented against the pharisees who cared more about "appearances" than how they were on the inside.  They devised rules, etc. to keep others out....they wanted to maintain control and be in charge.  They truly believed their way was right. "........

I think his "beef" with the pharisees is more than just a story about the life and opinions of a carpenter.  The story about the pharisees is one that applies to all people, in all times, of all religions.

It is the story of the "haves" vs. the "have nots" (rich v. poor, meek v. hubris, etc.)

I take a lot from that story.  

It is easy for religion to be used by someone to "prove" their own self worth.  Sometimes people like to feel "superior" in their chosen religion.  It is an easy trap to fall into.  There are myriad ways for someone to be a pharisee.  They are everywhere. ;(
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I look at the Bible as being a mirror.  It reflects a person's heart.  We see what we want to see.  If we want permission to do something, we will find a way to arrange the lines so they fit our reasoning.  Continually asking "what is truth" keeps the heart pointed in the right direction.

Today I was meditating on "cleansing"..."purifying"...."healing".  Cleansing is crucial to our well-being and not just external.  I watched the rabbits cleaning themselves this morning....the chipmunk pops out of his home & cleans himself.

When people are not well mentally or physically, they have a hard time keeping it up.

I asked a question in another group about what is a seared conscience.  I wanted to get perspectives from others as conscience is the means for sensitivity to be shown to God's spirit in dealing with good/evil...right/wrong.  

The example of the frog in the water is often used to explain how someone gets used to things that are dangerous until it is too late.  Cauterized is the way preachers explain a seared conscience.

I remember years ago a pastor sharing a story about a dog that would run off.  The person called for it, and it would ignore the calling to go play.  Then one day, it no longer heard the call.  He said that is how it is with God trying to reach us with His truths.  We cease to listen/have a sensitivity to His voice.

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This is one of the most inspiring, understandably beautiful words of wisdom and that I have ever came across. The perspective on yin and yang were absolutely wonderful and true. I am a balance seeker. I have a yin yang tattoo inside of a swampy tree with a lotus above it all. My tattoo is very spiritual to me.

Thank you for your post is has lifted light out of my soul. I needed that. I sometimes get caught up in the darkness and negativity of this complex existence. I LOVE what you've said about the Bible! Ive had many contemplations about the Bible. I use to be pentecostal, baptist, and Ive practiced Wicca. I believe now that all Gods are One. And there are MANY gateways to reach the One and only God. I believe in religious diversity because ALL religion is Good.
All religion is Positive.
All religion is Light, the goodness of our souls. I do not consider myself a religious being but a spiritual being. I believe that Jesus is personally 'my' gateway to forgiveness and renewal. I think Buddha is another gateway for those that are called to Him. And so on and so forth. I LOVE Wicca but I'm scared of what people say about mixing the Two.

Please give me your advice. Am I wrong to love Wicca and Jesus to?
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I am very glad you found something that made you feel good about yourself and gave you some encouragement.  There are so many ways to go, aren't there?  I believe that we each must do our own wrestling and reaching out for truth.  I also believe our sincerity in seeking the truth is a beacon that God sees.  He will draw us to Him and we will be able to let go of what is not for us to hold onto...it is our choice and we cannot do it until we are ready.

For me, I have chosen to believe that Jesus is the only way to God.   I could interpet the passage in the Bible about having other sheep to mean other nationalities or other beliefs or even aliens on another planet.  I realized that years ago.   It is through faith.  In other words, I am staking it all on it being true. It was my starting point.  I felt more lost in the new age as there wasn't any way to know if one thing was more sure than another. I love new age music.  So many beautiful thoughts. However, I felt safer staying close to Jesus/God/Holy Spirit. That is not to admit that I don't struggle with the theology.  I have been accused of being too intellectual and it is hard for me as I cannot prove a darn thing...lol!  It is subjective in the end as to what I believe God is in my life and how He set me free.   I go exploring to understand life and how things came to be.

There are stages I believe we go through.  During one, I so enjoyed reading Abraham Heschel's writings.  I cling to God first and foremost because I believe in Him over all other possibilities and believe He knows the ways in which we get lost...so around and around I go back to what cemented my view that God sees the desire we truly have to know the truth and He will lead us home.  Home sweet home, there is no place like home....home sweet home, be it ever so humble.

I believe in love and learning how to love others.  Compassion, kindness...the fruits of the spirit that mentioned in the bible....haven't read every wisdom book by every religion to know if the same things are said....so if you know more about that, share by all means.

If I tell you that to love Wicca and Jesus is wrong, what would you think and feel?  It is your decision to make.

What do you love about Wicca?  What do you love about Jesus?  Where do you see that they come together?  Would you help us understand your perspective?

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Jesus said "I am the way, the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." John 14:6. He was plainly saying there was no other way to God except through him.
Here's another one:

John 10:1-5
" 1.I tell you the truth, the man who does not enter the sheep pen by the gate, but climbs in by some other way, is a thief and a robber.2 The man who enters by the gate is the Shepherd of his sheep.3 The watchmen opens the gate for him, and the sheep listen to his voice. He calls his own sheep by name and leads them out.4 When he has brought out all his own, he goes on ahead of them, and his sheep follow him because they know his voice.5 But they will never follow a stranger; in fact, they will run away from him because they do not recognize a stranger's voice."

Broken down, read it again:

Jhn 10:1 "I assure you, anyone who sneaks over the wall of a sheepfold, rather than going through the gate, must surely be a thief and a robber!

Jhn 10:2 For a shepherd enters through the gate.

Jhn 10:3 The gatekeeper opens the gate for him, and the sheep hear his voice and come to him. He calls his own sheep by name and leads them out.

Jhn 10:4 After he has gathered his own flock, he walks ahead of them, and they follow him because they recognize his voice.

Jhn 10:5 They won't follow a stranger; they will run from him because they don't recognize his voice."

Jhn 10:6 Those who heard Jesus use this illustration didn't understand what he meant,

Jhn 10:7 so he explained it to them. "I assure you, I am the gate for the sheep," he said.

Jhn 10:8 "All others who came before me were thieves and robbers. But the true sheep did not listen to them.

Jhn 10:9 Yes, I am the gate. Those who come in through me will be saved. Wherever they go, they will find green pastures.

Jhn 10:10 The thief's purpose is to steal and kill and destroy. My purpose is to give life in all its fullness.

Jhn 10:11 "I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep.

Jhn 10:12 A hired hand will run when he sees a wolf coming. He will leave the sheep because they aren't his and he isn't their shepherd. And so the wolf attacks them and scatters the flock.

Jhn 10:13 The hired hand runs away because he is merely hired and has no real concern for the sheep.

Jhn 10:14 "I am the good shepherd; I know my own sheep, and they know me,

Jesus was pretty clear here. He is claiming to be the Messiah, God's son, and the only way to God the Father. He says any other way, any other gate is a lie, a deception from the devil.

As C. S. Lewis said in one of his books (I believe it was Mere Christianity. Awesome book, by the way! It gives some good historical accounts of who Jesus Christ was/is), he said "Either Jesus was a liar, a lunatic or he was telling the truth." Which was it? If he was telling the truth then he is who he claimed to be, the Messiah, the one and only way to the Father. If he was a liar or a lunatic it would have been revealed. It certainly would have come out when he was dying an agonizing death on the cross. I don't know anybody who would be able to hold up under that kind of pressure and not give in unless they were telling and living the truth. It's up to you what you want to believe. I believe he is who he says he is.

We must be very careful playing around with other religions. God is a jealous god and will not share his glory with another. He will not stand in a long line of our "gods". He wants to be first and only in our lives.
Wicca is a form of witchcraft, which is forbidden in the bible so if you truly love Jesus and want to follow him then you will want to please him and not grieve him or put other things before (or even beside him).
When we choose to follow Christ we do give up our lives to live for him but what we gain cannot even be measured. It is so worth it!

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(((God, as viewed by many different religions;)))

A Cherokee prayer blessing.

"May the warm winds of heaven blow softly upon your house,
May the Great Spirit bless all who enter there,
May your moccasins make happy tracks in many snows,
And may the rainbow always touch your shoulder."

An Apache marriage blessing:

"Now you will feel no rain, for each of you will be the shelter for the other.
Now you will feel no cold, for each of you will be the warmth to the other.
Now you are two persons, but there is only one life before you.
Go now to your dwelling, to enter into the days of your life together,
and may your days be good and long upon the earth."

Buddhism, The 3 trainings or practices;

1.)    Virtue, good conduct, morality. This is based on two fundamental principles:
The principle of equality: that all living entities are equal.   The principle of reciprocity: This is the "Golden Rule" in Christianity -- to do onto others as you would wish them to do onto you. It is found in all major religions.

2.)    Samadhi: Concentration, meditation, mental development. Developing one's mind is the path to wisdom which in turn leads to personal freedom. Mental development also strengthens and controls our mind; this helps us maintain good conduct.

3.)    Prajna: Discernment, insight, wisdom, enlightenment. This is the real heart of Buddhism. Wisdom will emerge if your mind is pure and calm.

Quotes and Facts on Paganism;

"We are not evil. We don't harm or seduce people. We are not dangerous. We are ordinary people like you. We have families, jobs, hopes, and dreams. We are not a cult. This religion is not a joke. We are not what you think we are from looking at T.V. We are real. We laugh, we cry. We are serious. We have a sense of humor. You don't have to be afraid of us. We don't want to convert you. And please don't try to convert us. Just give us the same right we give you--to live in peace. We are much more similar to you than you think." Margot Adler 4

Their main rule of behavior is the Wiccan Rede which forbids them from harming people, including themselves, except in some cases of self-defense.

Most of Christianity is highly centralized within denominations whose beliefs, rituals, and other practices are well documented and available to us. So we describe the diversity of Christian beliefs in great detail.

*       Wiccans worship a Goddess and her consort, a God.
* They do not recognize Satan or any other all-evil supernatural entity.
* Their prime symbol is the exact opposite to the symbol used by Satanists. It is the upright pentagram -- a 5-pointed star with two points downward and one up. Sometimes it is enclosed by a circle to form a pentacle.
* Their groups are called covens, not grottos or temples.
* Their rule of behavior is called the Wiccan Rede: "An it harm none, do what thou wilt." i.e. do whatever you wish, as long as it harms no one, including yourself. Unlike Satanists, Wiccans are not allowed do dominate, manipulate, control, or harm others.

They believe that they worship neither the Christian God nor the Christian devil. They worship a Goddess and a God. Neither is at all similar to Satan. Wicca, and other forms of Neopaganism, are as different from Satanism as Hinduism is from Christianity.

"Religious tolerance means to refrain from discriminating against others who follow a different religious path. Tolerance is more difficult to maintain when you  know that your religion is true and their religion is wrong."

Religious Tolerance;  accepting all religious faiths as being equally true. This is one meaning of the phrase "religious pluralism." Since religions teach different beliefs, this definition of tolerance implies that absolute truth doesn't exist. Most religious conservatives reject these beliefs, and regard their own faith as the only absolutely true belief system. Thus, many conservatives believe that religious tolerance -- using their definition of the term -- is evil.

"And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God." Paul, Ephesians 3:16-19 (NIV)

"Every sect is a certificate that God has not plainly revealed his will to man. To each reader the Bible conveys a different meaning."

"There will be peace on earth when there is peace among the world religions." Hans Küng.

Thank you for the scriptures. I personally have been "reborn" and saved through Jesus, my Lord.  He is my Lord. He speaks to me in many different ways. I am a believer. I feel I don't have to attend church regularly to have a relationship with Him. Although I have gained so much knowledge through hearing the gospel. It is nice, I think I may go to church again sometime soon :)  But I also believe in the right of "religious diversity"
There are so many Beautiful Spiritual gateways open to see the wonderful works of God. I feel the Holy Spirit upon me now it is truthfully the greatest way to feel. I use to have trouble receiving the light of the Holy Spirit until I REALLY met Jesus. I would not be alive today without His loving mercy and salvation! THAT is the truth. But getting 'plugged in' to a religion isn't the path I choose. It is and is not for some.

Buddhism, paganism, ect.. is not evil.
They are not negative.
Their colors may shine differently, but this does not mean they are wrong.

(((Our own conscience))) God and the devil's playground. Our conscience is where we discern right from wrong. Conformity to one's own sense of right conduct.The awareness of a moral or ethical aspect to one's conduct together with the urge to prefer right over wrong: Let your conscience be your guide. A good conscience is in all truth or fairness.

God, Jesus, the Holy Spirit, Mother Earth, and everything positive in this existence guides me through my own conscience.

The reason I am so interested in paganism is because the religion is absolutely beautiful. Yes, they believe in God. No Jesus may not be "their way" of reception. Paganism has a long history and I respect that. I also respect my Lord and do not wish to dismay Him.  I just feel that there are many gateways to the One God of this existence. I think as long as I opening admit that Jesus is my Lord and Savior above all, it is not harmful or wrong to reach the light from other portals.

I hope this makes a little bit of sense lol And I REALLY have NO intentions on discriminating or offending any beliefs because they are the truth. The truth. Never in History has anyone agreed and or establish what truth is. Because truth is our personal understanding of what is good, and true.
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Thank you for sharing what you see are better aspects of each area.  I mentioned the Biblical Analysis group to you because that is a place where those who want to get into the for/against could share their positions citing sources.

This group is for sharing  what being spiritual is and most see it as a connection to God but how they are connected varies.  It is good to share because someone may be struggling and what is posted may just be what they needed to encourage or point them in a better direction.  Some need affirmation that they are on track.

We struggle with what it means to love in challenging times and to continue doing it when we are hurting or others are hurting and don't seem to notice or misunderstand our intentions.  Hurt people hurt people.  I think there was a book by that name.

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I respect your right to believe what you want to believe. It's all a choice we make. You had asked if it was ok to love Jesus and love Wicca. I told you how Jesus feels about that. He says if we follow him we must give up ALL to follow him and put NO other gods before or even beside him.
The God of the Christian bible never has been nor ever will be tolerent of other gods or other religions. He made that pretty clear all through scripture. So, again, it just boils down to what you want to believe and the choices you want to make. It sounds to me like you've already made that choice.
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CrazyKc, again I respect your right to believe what you want to believe but you've said some things that I just wanted to point out.
You said you didn't want to dismay Jesus because you love him but believe there are many gateways to heaven. That's a contradiction right there because Jesus very plainly states all through the New Testament that he is the ONLY way to the Father (God the Father) and that NO one can come to the Father EXCEPT through Him (meaning Jesus), John 14:6. Also,  again, in John 10: 1-5 he said he is the gate into the sheeppen and that if anyone tries to enter any other way they are a thief and a robber. Over and over again he said very plainly that he is the only way to heaven and to the Father. To believe anything else is an insult to him and the horrific sacrifice he made for us to pave that way because we are basically saying his sacrifice was not good enough or not important enough and that we can figure out other ways to get to heaven without needing him or his sacrifice. Really, it's a form of pride on our part, which we all are guilty of. Every single one of us fall short of his glory. It's only through his blood sacrifice that he made for us that we even have that hope, that promise of being in paradise with him.

As the pastor preached on today at my church, following Christ will cost us. It will cost us everything. He asks us to give it all up to him and we have to be willing to say, "Yes, Lord". That path is narrow and difficult and many will not chose that path, but it is so worth it in the long run when we see him some day face to face.
Please just listen to what I said and go over those scriptures that I give again, s l o w l y, and then pray, really pray and ask God to reveal himself to you and speak to you the truth and be willing to listen to him because he speaks in different ways (through others, through nature but mostly through His Word).
He will not share his glory with another. To do so would be the greatest insult to him. If we are going to claim to be a follower of Christ then we must be willing to give up everything for him and truly put him first. I know it's hard but the end results are more than worth it.
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Please understand what I wrote is not in any way to be taken as an insult to any other people's beliefs. What I wrote was only meant for anyone who says they are a follower of Christ because if we are to follow Christ we have to be willing to put him first and not try to put other gods up there beside him. He will not stand for that. Other religions may say it's alright to have several gods or be tolerant of other religions but the God of the Christian bible is probably the only religion that says no to that. It's either all him or not. He says he is a jealous God and will not share his glory with another. So, if we claim to love Jesus and claim to be his follower then we cannot follow any other god or religion.
Jesus gave his all for us. The least we can do is give him all of us.

Again, not trying to upset anyone. We just have to decide what we want to believe and who we want to follow.
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I respect your right to believe what you want to believe. It's all a choice we make. You had asked if it was ok to love Jesus and love Wicca. I told you how Jesus feels about that. He says if we follow him we must give up ALL to follow him and put NO other gods before or even beside him. ".......
    I just have to interject here, and I know it might make me seem "persnickity"  But I would assert that you gave your opinion on the matter articulately, and backed it up with what you interpret as clear support for your opinion from the bible.  But that is not the same as telling someone what Jesus intended.  None of us knows any more than the other what was on J.C.'s mind while he walked this earth.  

Seriously.  Every single one of us is as blind as the other when it comes to "knowing" what Jesus intended.  To claim that any one of us has special knowledge of Christ would be, in my humble opinion, pharisee-esque.

That said, I must reiterate, that is simply my personal opinion.  Everything I write on this forum is only as "true" as it seems to me a tany given time based on my life experience at the time.(And to be honest, that changes all the time, as I have new experiences, learn more about the world, myself, etc.)  I have a personal spiritual path that is a combination of paganism, saivism, buddhism, judaism, christianity, and a few other indigenous south american belief systems.

  I truly believe each "system" of religion is any given cultures "best effort" to systemize and institutionalize a set of "rules for life", and as such I think they all have value.  But what each individual may take from any combination of beleif systems, is unique to that individual.

I think whoever "God" is, well, that is different for every person.  Is there any human being who can claim to truly "know" what God thinks about religions created by humans?

Just my opinion.  No more, no less.  Please don't take my post as a judgement.  :)
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I only wrote what I did because I felt as a fellow believer I should point out a few things as I would with any fellow believer because that's what the bible says we should do. Since she had specifically asked if it was ok to love Jesus and love Wicca I did feel like I had to tell the truth, that no, it's not ok. Jesus won't be shared with any other god or religion. It's pretty plain how God feels about that all through the bible (His Word). If you carefully read throughout the bible you will see many instances where he says you cannot put other gods before him. But I won't push for anyone who doesn't want to hear what I had to say. Didn't mean to offend anyone. I won't post anymore on the matter.
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I am sorry I offended.  I didn't mean to make you feel like you couldn't keep posting.  I enjoy reading peoples posts about their spiritual selves.
  I have come to believe ever single person who comes to the spirituality forum is here for a reason.  Maybe it is something to share, maybe it is just a comment, or a link to some outside source of encouragement, for each person it is different.

But I think as much as spirituality can be a blessing, sometimes "religion" can be confining for people.

My life has taught me never to buy something labeled "one size fits all" because in truth, it usually doesn't fit well at all.  I also tend to reject ideas or "rules" that are one size fits all, because quite frankly, the life I live is unique and varies from second to second.  My spirituality does too.

Religion is different than spiruality.  Religion is pretty straitforward, with rules and opinions on what is acceptable, and just as many rules and opinions on what is not acceptable.  For some people, religion is what they need to give meaning to life, and I do not wish to deprive them of that.

But for some other people, traditional religions and their dogma can push people even further from a relationship with God.  For some people, where they are on their path to God is spiritual rather than religious.  

This is the place for spiritual seeking.  For being open to, and supportive of ,the individual spiritual path that any one of us may be on. I respect the path that you are on, and I am glad that it works for you.  I also respect the path that KC is on, and I am glad that it works for her.

There are many ways to interpret biblical scripture, and just as many other religious scriptures in the world that are seen as the words of God by their followers.  The spiritual path that each of us walks down is different.  Each life is unique and specific to the individual.  
And spiritually, each path has something of value worth rejoicing in.  Even the path that may seem full of darkness, can have a spiritual "light".

I hope I didn't discourage you from further posting :)  I want everyone to feel their own spiritual path is welcome here.  :)
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I think we have the opportunity here to work with different views but same goal with wanting truth, to live in ways that are honoring and helpful to self/others & be close to God.

I take a traditional approach but also recognize that each person has to come to their awareness of God reaching them.  I don't have a problem with some sharing what they believe is the way to be saved knowing it is done with a heart concern for someone's eternity standing.  

Equal time though to those with differing views...then the person makes the choice.  God gave free will and all things are possible with Him.  It is my hope that none will perish and that God will find a way to reach everyone with what is necessary to save them.  
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Well said, Dazon.

You didn't offend me, painbrain. I guess I feel more sad or discouraged that some of us seem to be on different wavelengths but as Dazon said, it's up to God (or the Holy Spirit) to draw each person to Him and reveal Himself to Him. Our job is to mainly pray for each other and for ourselves.

Peace and blessings.
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I agree with April2,

This is the way I look at it..

There is naturally friction between each major religion, on how each sees things differently. For example, Jesus is God in the Christian religion, while in Islam and Buddhism Jesus is only a good man or prophet. Judaism rejects Jesus’ claims to be the Messiah, and New Age doctrine says He is here on the earth now, and has made multiple appearances throughout history. Is Jesus the only God then?

Any differences in doctrine must be brought to the Word of God for examination with an open mind, so that the Word and the Word alone will dictate our doctrinal beliefs. This is the unity Christ wanted for His followers. Never did He mean that we could believe whatever we wanted about a particular doctrine, for Christ Himself quoted the Word and lived by it.

The confusion among religions explains why atheists and agnostics see religion, and especially Christianity, as a spiritual crutch. It seems that each person interprets the Word to suit his or her fancy, and that truth is unavailable, unattainable, and perhaps even non-existent. Truth becomes relative to each person’s perspective and experiences.  

“For I am jealous over you with godly jealousy, for I have espoused you to one husband that I may present you as a chaste virgin to Christ. But I fear lest by any means, as the serpent beguiled Eve through his subtilty, so your minds should be corrupted from the simplicity that is in Christ. For if he that cometh preacheth another Jesus, whom we have not preached, or if ye receive another spirit, which ye have not received, or another gospel, which ye have not accepted, ye might well bear with him” (2 Corinthians 11:2-4).

I guess when I think religious unity, I ask: can all religions really be one? If every religion believes whatever they want, doesn't that directly affects the existence of truth? So can they all be true? If so, then truth is just an opinion and nothing more... and that's sad.  
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The idea that both Islam and Buddhism both see Jesus the same way is not an accurate statement about how Buddhism "sees" Jesus.

Perhaps I am being a highly sensitive person, but I think in order to speak with authority on the inner workings of other religions one is best served by asking questions about them and being open to the answers and information given.

It seems like most Christians want a non Christian to know about what being a Christian means before they make judgements about  Christianity.

Most Christians want that, as do most Jews, Pagans, Hindus, Buddhist's, Muslims, Shintos, etc. etc.

I guess the point I am making (as a sensitive person :)  lol) is that I think posts here are meant to be more about all types of spirituality, not am opportunity to Proselytize for a specific sect, of a specific religion.

Dazon and I share a lot of the same spiritual ideas, but our chosen religions are very different from each other.  If we wanted to, we could spend our days posting about our way being the "true" way.  And we can each post pages upon pages of scriptures from our own Holy Books that "prove" our opinions to be true.  

But in the end, that is not spirituality.  It would be excellent religious debate. Yet still be pages of quotes from books deemed "the true word of God" by those who see them as such.

But if we sit down together and talk about how many aspects of our spirituality are similar, we can experience something even better than proving to each other that our God thinks we are right.  We can experience friendship with someone we might not otherwise have gotten to know, or I might learn about something Dazon posts, something that really touched me spiritually and helped me improve my relationship with God.
If I only post about my chosen religion and how everyone else is wrong, sooner or later, this forum would become the "religion forum" or the "conversion to the true word" forum.

I may be a bit over-protective of this forum in particular because it was so helpful to me.  It is impossible to live the life I have without constant spiritual practice, and there are not very many places people can go to discuss spirituality, without facing the shame and guilt that comes with not "fitting in" to most organized religions.  But there are lots of places a Christian can post on if they want to discuss what they do and do not consider to be the word of God.
I hope I don't sound too crabby, I am an HSP with PTSD and FMS  and my acronyms are affecting my mood a tad.
That said, blessings all around!
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Excellent...really couldn't say it better, just paraphrase.

You see my path whereas others question whether I am really hard-core Christian.  They do so without knowing my struggles and path from childhood on.  Yes, if put to the test...Jesus is my LORD and Savior!!  Do I understand the theology...NO.  Can the bible be interpreted many ways...you betcha!!!

I read through the whole bible.  I agonized over God telling the Israelites to kill essentially "races" of people..old, frail, children, unborn.  Some didn't obey and there was hell to pay. The Israelites never quite got rid of the groves and like now...the groves grew and other beliefs sprouted up.  The Old Testament's admonition is to kill anything that sets itself up in God's place...the Israelite's God....the first 5 books of Moses.

I have gone the gamut of debates, of studying all sorts of angles, by no means totally exhaustive of everything out there.  If you say someone is to be put to death for witchcraft, and that wearing mixed clothing is an abomination, along with eating shellfish and homosexuality, etc...you cannot pick/choose one and say the other was because of..... but we can do this/that because of.....  To do that, someone is the authoritarian over what is meant.  

When it comes down to it...each one of us claiming to have the Holy Spirit has a teacher already inside.

April, for your info...look up Norman Vincent Peale...he is considered off track as he is considered a "universalist".  I was considered to be in the discernment ministry and could run down the list according to more main fundamental teachings the who is who on their list.

Joyce Meyers...off track.  Any psycho babble ...off track.  Promise Keepers ...off track....the list goes on.  This is what drove me into a deeper relationship with God and saying I don't know you except through my limited view/understanding and through others.  

I remember in my more fundamental days of learning Stuart Briscoe read non-christian books that had psychology, etc....thinking he was being led astray.  What he was doing was learning what is out there and how it fit in.

People want to make nice rules (not easy) where everything fits in its place and makes semi-sense...but in doing so, they shut out so much and set themselves up to be the final authority.  When you begin to really look, you see.  How do you think the catholic church begin the separation and churches have been doing since.  Not just them, but about every branch of anything?  People do not live in each other's skin to do it exactly the same way and know it the same way.  God is fully aware and gave us free will and individuality.  There is more here than I can comprehend, but I believe God does.  What it boils down to is what Jesus said....Love God with all your heart (can't go wrong there) and love others as yourself (can't go wrong there either...would you want your child to starve?  then don't make it hard for other people's children to go without food.  You want health care?  Bring the prices down so everyone can have it to be healthy and live....goes on with a long, long list).   There is clearly a lack of love .  Every day we see it!

Some people argue over beliefs to be more right than because they love.  Jesus saw that with the Pharisees.  Who was the one who helped the man beaten up and left for dead on the side of the road?  Who was the one who helped?  

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http://www.crossroad.to/Quotes/spirituality/peale.htm  (Do research on Masons...rosicrucians, etc...occult mixed in).  I was fully aware of this & stayed away from reading Norman's books because I didn't want to be "corrupted". Seems harmless at first, right????  In the discernment ministry, I realized when it came down to it, something could be found wrong with everything, even the people doing the discerning.  I got to where everywhere I turned around, I had to be careful.  That is no way to live a life.  We are to rest in the Lord...the battle belongs to the Lord.  We cannot win in our own strength.  We are not to deal one on one with Satan.  God is the only one with the knowledge and power to do so.  He guides individuals & equips them to do His will.


(I posted only a few, but enough to get the picture).  You quoted him in another group.  I let it go by until now because this is a good object lesson.  

We share info. to help and encourage.  If asked, we can explain why we see it the way we do.  Main thing is the living out daily of what we believe.  Words have power....shared, they do what Hebrews 4:12 says...For the word of God is living and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart

I used to believe it was only the Bible, but now I know "words" are under God's domain and we are living epistles.  The Catholic church realized this & wrote volumes in addition....the Israelites realized this & wrote volumes in addition, and so on and so on..

However, the Bible, is what points us to God, to the story of how it all began.  The NT is the fulfillment, but not in the Jews mind/heart.  Those that are not messianic do not accept Jesus as the Messiah.  Their interpretation says...Jesus did not fulfill it.

It bears looking at the reasons why once having studied the Bible and praying continually for wisdom, knowledge and understanding .  That is where I am at this point in time.

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OK I didn't say Islam and Buddhism both see Jesus the exact same way, but they still see Jesus less than what Jesus said he was. Both say that Jesus was a good teacher but doesn't say he was God...  

To me it is not arrogant to believe that Jesus is the only way. The Bible clearly teaches that He is the only way to salvation and that all other ways are a counterfeit of the truth.

In order for all religions to unite in a one-world religion, the belief of Jesus as the only way to salvation must be downplayed. Buddhists, Hindus, and Muslims will not unify with Christians if Jesus is lifted up as the only source of salvation. This principle of Jesus as the only way is under attack in our world today.

I just think that there is a great effort to make Jesus small. The glorious work of Jesus is downplayed. He is being replaced by a "universal Christ that satisfies them all." This universal Christ bears many names and disguises, is acceptable to all religions, and isn't really God. This universal Christ claims to be just a teacher—no more divine than he claims all humans are. He speaks of global unity, world peace, and justice for all.

Although this false Christ's messages sound peaceful, in reality they will only bring peace to those willing to comply. The true Christ's message is of peace that will come when God eradicates Satan and the problem of sin from Earth and humankind.

I don't have a problem with people believing what they wish. I will not stop you from worshiping that way. But if I'm forced to make Jesus universal and I have to worship all Gods as equal I have a problem with that because Jesus has to come down to the level of every other god...

The Christian faith is based on the Bible alone. There are historical, archeological, prophetic, and personal reasons for some to place such faith in a book. But the Christian has also the natural world as evidence of a loving and wise Creator. Scientists and surgeons of all ages have admitted that only a designer and Creator could account for the lavish complexity of Earth. I do not need anything else..
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tbabi, if I'm understanding correctly I think painbrain would rather we not post here anymore since she said there are other forums Christians can go to but she feels protective over this one. I'm really sad to hear that.
I sure didn't mean to start any argument or debate. The only reason why I posted anything at all was because the way painbrain worded her questions was "Is it ok to love Jesus and Wicca?" You asked if it was ok but apparently already had your mind made up and didn't want to hear any other way than what you already had decided. That's certainly your right, of course. All I was trying to do was show how Jesus felt about other gods.

Dazon, not sure why you posted what you did about Norman Vincent Peale but if you think I'm a big follower of his I'm not really. I have quoted some things he's written because I agreed with them. I do try to take most things with a grain of salt.
I know lots of people like Joyce Meyers. I never really cared about her. I have a friend who is crazy for Benny Hinn but I feel he's a false prophet after hearing things and watching him.
You said it was no way to live always trying to be careful but we do have to be careful and the bible says exactly that. Otherwise, we will be led astray. That's why the bible says we are to put on the full Armor of God because we are indeed in a battle, a spiritual battle, whether we like it or not. Yes, the battle is His and we can't do it ourselves but that doesn't mean we can play passive or we will be swallowed up. Believe me, I know.I've had to fight in some of these battles. We fight mainly in prayer and scripture. That is our weapon. It's more powerful than many of us give credit to.

I'm very picky when it comes to pastors and churches because there's just too many who are not following God's Word. I try to pray and ask God to give me wisdom and discernment to be able to distinguish what is from Him or not from Him because I'm afraid we're in some pretty perilous times and I think it will only get worse. Satan is called the great deceiver and disguises himself as an angel of light. Many people don't realize that and think of him only as a dark, evil figure that they'd be able to spot right away. It scares me enough that I try to stay close to God and under his umbrella of protection. I don't want to be led astray. I know I sure can't do it without the Lord's help so I totally depend on Him. Me means everything to me. I can't imagine life without Him.
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I would love for both of you to continue posting about spirituality in this forum.  To be frank, I do not think a zealous repost of ones chosen dogma framed as being the only real "truth", exclusive of all other spiritual seeking, is what people are looking for in a spirituality forum.

  But I do not speak for everyone else, just for my self.

Ultimately, I think both of you have some interesting ideas about spirituality and life in general.  You both express a strong desire to find something that feels true to you, and that is really what all spiritual seekers are looking for(on this forum and elsewhere).

We all have a lot more in common than we might realize at first glance. For example, many Hindu's believe that Jesus was an incarnation of God.  Just like most Christians.  I bet we could have some great discussions together about Jesus.  I love to read the Bible and have 4 different translations.  We could grow closer to God together by examining the similarities and differences between the translations, and discussing what we think it might mean in a spiritual sense as opposed to a religious sense.

Or when you post here you can continue to post about your conviction that you have found the real "truth" about God that humans have been searching for for thousands of years, and how the rest of the spiritual systems in the world have no value

.  If that is what you want to post about, and you want to do it in a forum specifically created to be open to all walks of life, and all spiritual paths, then you are setting yourself up for responses like mine.

If part of your church doctrine is that the whole world is out to knock Jesus down, I would advise you go out and ask some real people of different faiths what they think about Jesus.  If your information about the teachings of other religions is coming from a Christian, then it is a biased view, and it may very well be incorrect.  In which case you would be basing what you think is the path to a one world religion on the unproven words of man, not the Holy words of God.

Either way, I am not trying to imply that either of you refrain from posting here.

I am  saying if you want to post about why your church is the only REAL church, and your religion is the only REAL TRUE religion, I think there are forums you can do that in without making people uncomfortable.

  I also think if you post the kinds of things like you did above, in a forum or group of people who you know feel differently than you do, you should expect a few ruffled feathers and an attempt to de-rail proseltyzing for a specific religion in a spirituality forum.  I hope you will see it as such, and not as "proof" that the whole world is out to defame Christ, proclaim his teachings as meritless, and banish his followers.

I love to talk about Jesus.  But you will never know that if your goal is only to distribute information, and not to drink it up yourself.

I hope both of you post here in the future to talk about spiritual topics, and I hope anybody who reads this feels comfortable posting in this forum, whatever their chosen religion is, or their current spiritual inclinations.

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I never said you or anyone who didn't believe as I did had no value!!! Never, never, never did I say that! I would never say that because I believe all life is precious and has value.

Nor did I say I thought my church was the only way. Actually, I agree with you that there are many things about religion that I dislike, not what God has said in His Word but man made doctrines. I very much dislike how many churches are more caught up in man made doctrines or rules than the simplicity of the gospel, which basically boils down to loving the Lord with all our hearts, souls and minds, and loving each other.
During Jesus' time there were no seperation. Everyone met and sat down and listened to Jesus preach. It's man that started seperating things and making different churches with different doctrines and rules because they couldn't get along with things that really shouldn't have been that important. For instance, my children went for awhile to a Christian school where the church who led it did not believe in using musical instraments during worship because they said there was no record of that in the NT. Yet in the OT there were many instances were the harp, trumpets, etc. were used during worship and the trumpet is what the angel is supposed to sound when Jesus returns. I really don't think God cares if we use musical instraments during worship or not as long as our hearts are focused on Him!
Many other churches disagree on baptism, through immersion or sprinkling. My parents had belonged to a church who wouldn't let me be a member because I had been sprinkled at another church. They didn't recognize it unless I would be immersed. I actually did get rebaptized many years later through immersion, NOT because a church told me to but because I felt like I did it for the wrong reasons the first time and wasn't fully committed to Christ at that time, nor really understood His sacrifice to me. So, I got rebaptized as an adult when I came back to Christ, after having walked away for awhile.

Actually, many, many churches have turned me off. I do think that a relationship with Christ should be more spiritual than religious because it's a heart thing. It has to be or it's not a real relationship.
My brother told me once that he felt closer to God walking on the beach than he did in church. I understand how he feels. I feel close to God by looking at what He has created too but I also enjoy going to church and learning and singing praise songs.
That's why I wrote my latest journal, about how God speaks to us. He speaks to us in so many ways, through others, through His creation, through that still small voice and through His Word. It all has to line up though and not contradict each other because God is not a god of confusion.

I'm not trying to make it sound like I'm a know-it-all by any means! I have a lot to learn. I think we're always growing and learning till the day we die. I do choose to believe the God of the bible and do my best to follow HIm but I mess up every day! And that's why I need Him so badly. I can't do it on my own. I can't forgive and love and all those other things He says I must do without His help. I'm just grateful I have a loving, forgiving and patient God because that's what gives me hope!

I do tend to get passionate about my beliefs because I love Jesus so much and am so grateful to Him and what He's done for me but I will try not to get too pushy, and if I did, then I'm sorry, it's just that I love Him so much!

Thanks for letting me post and share. Peace and blessings!
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You said, "In which case you would be basing what you think is the path to a one world religion on the unproven words of man, not the Holy words of God."

All of it is proven.The Bible says this will happen. And the whole world wondered after the beast. Which is false religion. We are to be very careful what we listen to because we can be decieved. Robert Muller, former Assistant Secretary General of the United Nations, is a strong believer in a one-world religion and Pierre Teilhard de Chardin. Notice his comments:

"We must move as quickly as possible to a one-world government; a one-world religion; under a one-world leader." Dwight L. Kinman, The World’s Last Dictator (Woodburn, Oregon: Solid Rock Books, 1995): 81.

You should really look into Mr. Pierre Teilhard de Chardin and what One World Government is about..

You also said, "I am saying if you want to post about why your church is the only REAL church, and your religion is the only REAL TRUE religion, I think there are forums you can do that in without making people uncomfortable."

So then what I said is exactly true. Jesus has to come down to the level of every other god to be accepted. I must take my Jesus with me to another forum...

You again said: "I hope you will see it as such, and not as "proof" that the whole world is out to defame Christ, proclaim his teachings as meritless, and banish his followers."

The Bible says that this whole controversy is over worship. Anyways, I simply said what I believed and I never told you to leave...

You said, "But you will never know that if your goal is only to distribute information, and not to drink it up yourself."

.. No actually I eat watermelon, but I spit out the seeds. I don't just internalize what sounds good without any real truth. I'm sorry when somethings wrong, it's wrong.

Anyways, my point is be strong tell me why you believe what you do. Discuss. I can back myself up, never will I be uncomfortable about saying something. I speak because it's what being a christian is about... showing people error and pointing them to Jesus. Some errors don't look like errors because they appear to be good.

Anyways, please don't be offended by what I have written but this is what I believe and I feel I have a right to say what I believe as well.
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okay.  I want to restart.
I know yesterday was a really bad day for me pain wise, and I am also starting a new medication that makes me feel really out of sorts, So I am not as articulate as I would like to be, and I want to make sure that I don't give the wrong impression, so I want to clarify some of the things I was trying to express yesterday.  Sometimes I can come off sounding harsh or abrupt, but I don't always mean to be. (although I reserve the right to be a raving lunatic if the mood strikes me :)
So I want to start by apologising to anyone I might have made feel unwelcome yesterday.  It is not for me to judge wether or not someones belief system is right for them, so I will try really hard not to do that here.  :)
So...these are the main points I wanted to articulate yesterday.  :)
1.  I do not want people to refrain from posting in the spirituality forum based on their religious or spiritual systems.  I want ALL people to feel comfortable posting here about their spiritual self.  This is not the "anti-church" forum, and I don't want to give the impression that I am anti-church, or anti-christianity.  I have learned to look for value in every single nugget of spirituality I come across on this winding road of life.
2.  I do not want anyone to feel they have been "kicked out", or unwelcome of the forum for something they have posted about their spirituality.  If one wants to post about their spiritual interactions with a giant spaghetti monster, I would be cool with that.  As long as the post is about spirituality, I am down for a discussion, even a heated one, as I feel that sometimes we learn the most about our chosen viewpoint when we are called to defend it.  
3.  I want there to be a feeling of mutual respect and equality for the spirituality of anyone who posts here. Each of us is in a unique place on our spiritual path, and all of us here  are seeking the same thing, a spirituality that can give meaning and hep us make sense out of life.
  If I had my druthers, we would all treat each other as spiritual equals, sharing insight and information with each other,freely asking questions, giving answers, sharing insight,  etc etc, with the understanding that we are all spiritual seekers still looking for our individual "truth" and although one person may feel they have found the truth, another may still be seeking.
   I feel comfortable posting about my spiritual beleifs, and posting things I think another poster might be able to glean spiritual insight from.  I will not post something that implies my way is the only path to God, becauseI believe spirituality is unique and individual to every person.
And lastly, I want everyone to know this is simply my personal opinion.  I don't want anyone to feel pushed around by me, because this forum belongs to all of us, collectively, and it is (and will be) what we make of it.  It is not an exclusive club where people feel they have to subscribe to a specific belief system in order to participate, nor is it a place any individual belief systems are excluded.

The last thing I want to clarify.  I do not want anyone to feel their personal God or deity, or religious system has to be "brought down" in order for there to be open discussion.  I do feel that each of us has to respect that in this forum, there is an equality among us, and our individual views of Godhead.  
So in that sense, if I want to post about Shiva, I have to understand that although in my personal life, I see my God as the top dog,but when I post in the spirituality forum, my God has to be on equal footing with everyone elses God.  If someone posts about Jesus, thats cool, as long as it is not a post proclaiming that particular deity as supreme over the others referred to in this forum.  
In the spirituality forum, no one God is THE God, we must see and treat everyones chosen deity as equal in order for this forum to be about spirituality.  Otherwise it would be a forum dedicated to one particular God above all others, and that is not spirituality, that is religion.  I am not anti-religious, but I think a forum dedicated to a particular religion is the best place for posts that reflect personal religious views and dogma that are exclusive of other systems.
Whereas posting about different religious views and how they can relate to spirituality regardless of adherance to a particular religious system, that is totally game for this forum. (IMHO)
the other thing I would say is before one posts something that references another belief system or cultural value, take special care to be aware that someone who subscribes to that beleif system may be reading your post.   People on this forum love and value many varied traditions, they are a great resource for information about particular cultured, relgions, and spiritual systems.  This is the place to ask someone about Allah, not the place to lump "all other Gods" together.  
If one believes  their God to be the only God, there is nothing wrong with that belief, but in the spirituality forum, all Gods are respected as such, and all scriptures are on equal footing.
Ultimately, these are just my opinions, nothing more, and nothing less.  In the end this forum belongs to all of us who post on it.  It will become whatever we make it.
Love and blessings :)
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It is good to be able to share views without flaming/blaming.  I cannot fault anyone who really believes something and is trying to do good in doing so.  There is a difference in motives and how things are done.

I believe in being discerning...but after going through my experience I realize I really do have to rely on God not on other people's teaching and that I am going more by "my" perception in what I believe the Holy Spirit is telling me.  That doesn't mean I don't run things by others to listen to what they say (Pastor, teachers, counselors, friends, even here).  Believe it or not---I read what everyone writes here as time allows and reflect on it.  I do not set myself up as the "authority" but leave an open .....to listen.  I choose what I am following as I have to.  

Nothing deleted here as it is good for each person to be able to share.  April, nothing insulting/offending intended.  I saw a post sharing Norman's thoughts & that is why I shared because I wanted to illustrate how others could interpret your posting as being "off-based" because of what Norman's position.  A number of people never look into the background of who they are listening to.  I learned to do that years ago.  It is good to do.

There are many discernment ministries out there....even looking into their background.  What I was trying to say is that I started getting critical of everyone because I was looking for the devil behind "all the different teachings".  Fact is none of us are perfect and on a day I am tired/weak/sad....probably should keep my mouth closed because I may not be walking correctly in the Spirit.

My views are changing and I am learning to admit that it is totally by faith I believe what I do.  I cannot produce Jesus, nor any actuall pictures of him.  Certainly cannot produce God and He would not allow it as He isn't under my command to do my bidding.  I am to submit to His will.

I am directing my attention towards learning to listen to Him better which involves being still.  
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" if I want to post about Shiva, I have to understand that although in my personal life, I see my God as the top dog,but when I post in the spirituality forum, my God has to be on equal footing with everyone elses God."

Sadly, I feel this is probably not the forum for me then as I cannnot and will not put my God on equal footing with all other gods. He strictly forbids that in the book that I follow (the bible). If I were to do that then I would have to put Him on equal footing with Satan, or even "The Spaghetti Monster" and that is such an incredible offense to my God and I won't dishoner Him in that way.

I'm not going to push my beliefs but neither will I "water down my faith" in order to get along with everyone. My God has to come first in my life and that is what I strive for, to do His will and put Him first. Some day I will have to meet Him face to face and would never want Him to be ashamed of me. I will not act ashamed of Him, either. He has sacrificed His life for me. The least I can do is honor Him and serve Him to the best of my ability.

I wish you all well. Peace and blessings to you all.
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I am sorry to see you leave as you are more than welcome here.

No one is asking you to water  God down.  I think God is bigger than that.

The Spirituality group is a place for people to share what has helped them grow in their walk with God or who is it they turn to when they need help or how they cope day in/out with challenges or how spirituality fits in their life or those who want to know more about Spirituality.  Not everyone here follows Jesus, but that doesn't mean you don't belong.  What would Jesus want you to do?  

I happen to think God is above all other gods so I am not bothered by others sharing what they follow.  I cannot make anyone believe identically the way I do anymore than anyone could me. I share my faith and answers questions if asked.  There are choices from the start.  I think we learn from others.  I don't worship Shiva and don't think anyone is offended that I don't as they are not asking me to.

Blessings to you also and peace too :-))

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Great replies. So intelligent. Though, I only joined this group to reply to this post, I can tell from reading the reply of CrazykC that you are very "literal" in your Bible interpretation. If you look at the Bible from God's perspective, YOU are Jesus. In fact, he said that YOU are able to do more than he. In fact, he said we are gods. Which, totally agrees with the Wiccan/ Pagan faith of God/ Goddess worship leaving us to be the Jesus, the master of our own destiny being that we DO have free will. There is absolutely no Satan pulling your strings, only you, the decider of your own fate. One conscious mind living an identity crisis in many different bodies forms all over this entire Universe. Which is an awesome word. UNI-verse. Implying one. UNI-mind, implying one mind.  How can God see all, be  everywhere and know everything, unless God is within every single living thing, which, btw, is expanding and evolving every single day.
So for doomsday lovers, I'm sorry, yes it's going to end here. Every life ends, but will you graduate to a higher order? This is merely school for our Spirits, we're all tested to overcome and achieve. Those who give up are fruitless as Jesus pointed out and they will be not be harvested because of their ignorance and closed mindedness.
Just my observation. Peace out and do what thou wilt.
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Hey, if you read all those John Bible verses as if it literally means YOU when it says I am the way, then take that for the green pastures. Because anybody other than YOU will ALWAYS lead you astray. This is why ALL the Christian Churches have Money and control over the politics of this World. Because there is a distortion in understanding that YOU are literally the way to your OWN salvation, you are jesus. Your conscious, sub conscious and super conscious mind is ALL.
It saddens me that only Free Mason's and Rosicrucian are aware of this knowledge. I have also seen some converting back to the ancient Egyptian CHRIST. look up the word KHEM and find a teacher named Dr. Valentine, a very enlightened spiritual Man. Too bad he thinks white MEN are less enlightened than blacks. Otherwise, he's a genius. But, I suppose, that's the EGO at work, your physical self combating your spiritual self.
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Do you find the occult Interesting.? You mentioned "Do what thou wilt..." Are you into Aleister Crowley or Helena Blavatsky?
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Yep I agree with you. He is so misled.
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I used to be called "too sensitive" or "thin skinned" and would often be hurt because I felt as though I wasn't built right for lack of a better term.  Truth be told I would be hurt by the things I was sensitive to.  I think it is ok to be sensitive.  It helps me to better understand what is going on with someone else.  From there I can take the needed time to understand what the next right thing to do may be.  I find that for me, putting my will to the side and understanding what the "conditions" are allowing helps a lot in finding a good solution.

As far as the thin skinned thing goes I found for me that I was hurt by my own insecurities with myself.  Today I am better able to laugh at myself and accept myself for who I am.  I also tend not to worry to much about what others think.  I honestly have no idea what is going on with them, their background or why they are the way they are or why they do the things they do.  Today I do the best I can to be in a position to better help others.  
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Well, very interesting.. the one true way, having to defend the purpose and intent of this forum from prostlitizing (never could spell).  Sorry folks, no quotes, no author references... don't have that kind of memory or ever even the time, just a student of the school of hard knocks.

I've prayed to hear from Jesus a zillion times, but the only time I hear anything is when I pray to hear from God.  There are laws of Nature, immutable.  Let there not be laws of Spirit.  Some will follow the law of the big fish eats the little fish and the more the better... greed, so very Natural.  Some folks couldn't find their Spiritual side with a searchlight and are repeled by the thought of seeking such a thing.  I hate it, it's not me.  But that means, distinctly, that there are two ways to Life... Nature and Spirit.  God gave us Nature.  In His unbounded generosity He also gave us Spirit guides and teachers.  Divine?  I don't know.  

Spirit fills me with light and love at times when exposure to greed nearly kills my soul (or I nearly kill myself), that's all I need to know.  I've seen too much greed protected by laws to believe that laws are the only way to live.  If God had just one thing in mind religion-wise that would be rather not in keeping with things like unique snowflakes, fingerprints, DNA, etc.  Let there be Life. LET there be. Don't try to live someone else's Life for them.  

Now back to the original post.  

I'm waay sensitive.  I don't know if it's just built in or if it's the result of having to be hyper-conscious of what next horrible thing was going to go down around the house as a kid.  

Later, trying so hard to be sensitive to others' viewpoints, but wanting them to SEE the things I can see...  And so, ending up always on the defensive, always explaining myself, usually (as Dazon50 points out) being put down... has made me very negative, and I'm really tired of that.  Shutting down didn't work either... can't recall how many times I heard "Doesn't anything bother you?" "Why don't you ever cry."  So, okay, I put some effort into it and learned to cry... and couldn't stop... a fat lot of good that did me (and anybody who's been on the receiving end of my woe).  

Time for a change.  The world is in big trouble, my decision to embrace my sensitive nature isn't going to hurt anybody or anything.  (Interesting.  Wicca, huh?  It's utterly indisputable that there has to be a father and a mother (one way or another) for most living organisms... a nod to the aomeba... and Spirit is certainly Life.  Maybe there is a path to the father and a path to the mother?  Shepherds tend to be male, no?  And their followers sheep?  Didn't I read somewhere that sheep are really stupid?  I'M SORRY, I'M SORRY... I'm damnably irreverant that way... but I'm safe, there's a passage that condemns damning - or even judging - another.  Pretty serious consequences, I read.)  

If I'm right, and if this acceptance of myself makes me easier to be around, it should help, myself and others who have to be around me.  Somehow I intuit that good will come of it.  

Sometimes I wish I could only come out with things that everybody is going to like, agree with, etc.  It just never works out that way.  Anybody else have that problem?
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By the way, from a traditional standpoint... I think I'm the only person I've ever heard suggest that someday Satan is going to look up from the lake of fire and praise God for sending him to the place he loves above any other he's seen.  

Worth a note that God did not execute Satan for disobedience to the rules, but that rather he openly receives debate from the head demon (book of Job, of course).  

Also, from the Bible... demons readily recognized and acknowledged Jesus for Who He was... even had a conversation with Him, but it didn't save them from the consequences of taking what did not belong to them... unfortunately the poor pigs had to drown as a result.  Still chewing on that one.  I told you... I'm sensitive.  Poor pigs.  
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Hey, maybe the pigs belonged to some dude whose bad ways drove the demon-possesed guy crazy?  Clever, that God.  Knows how to compare oranges to apples and come up with the right formula for justice.  
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