Right Dear ( what should I call you ? ) Brain !!
May be it is because we live for the others and we are worry all the time of not being accepted, we also believe based on publicity of that belief not really what the truth is.
May be we have to look to ourselves once in a while and rearrange our true believes before we go ahead too far
I think this can be applied to words on a bigger scale too.
****Always think of the power words have. Because everything you hear and read will affect your actions! ******
I think everything we hear, or even see, smell, etc. they all end up affecting our actions. All day long we are bombarded with images and dis-embodied voices telling us that to be successful we must buy a new mercedes, or if we want to be loved we should wear this brand of clothing, etc. etc.
I think all of that overtime gets into us and causes changes me may not even be aware of. Over time, being exposed to words and images and ideas that reflect certain values or beliefs can lead us to react to a situation differently than we would have otherwise.
I think a lot of people, especially in western culture, end up giving away part of their values and personality to "popular culture" without even realizing it, almost hypnotized into thinking there really is no way to the top of the tower without purchasing whatever someone is selling.
SOrry if that sounds really negative, it really isn't supposed to be a rant on western culture, more an illustration of how we all sometimes let outside influences "creep in" and color our own perceptions of ourselves.
But once we are aware of it, we can change it :)
I knew from very beginning that you are a highly confident person
I am as little as you can think of.........lol
I always do but good to have a little reminder lol