Hi, My fiancee just returned from the hospital this morning,and his mood is rotten.Our kittens caused a teensy ordeal,yet he is angry,told me numerous times to leave him alone,and said "I love you,too,in a riled up way.Last night,I goaded to this man,helped him home and to bed,and I even fed him a few spoonfuls of Cheerios! He said he appreciates my help,that he wanted to rest.So here I am asking, As his future beloved wife,with no legal rite of my own,what can I personally do to help him without nurses? Also he is 74-years-old,and he usually doesn't act like this toward me.Any advice?