FIND ANOTHER DOCTOR/HOSPITAL. It would seem to me that your BP is too high and your symptoms indicate there MAY BE other serious issues occuring. It would seem to me a CAT Scan AND a MRI of your brain are in order.
Do you have health insurance?
Your high blood pressure is very ominous, especially since you mentioned what has happenned to your family. Don't delay, have it treated right away before it wreaks havoc in your body: your heart, your brain, your kidneys, etc. It is very likely that you suffered a stroke 1 month ago which means you are now at an even higher risk of having another stroke -- and the next one may be devastating and permanent. You must treat your blood pressure, check your sugar and cholesterol and put yourself on a good diet. Find a doctor or a clinic that will do a comprehensive exam and start you on medication. Do it for your kids.
I went to the er twice... I was admitted on the 6th and got out on the 10th and they did tons of test. I got about 6 ekgs done, 2 cat scans, 2 mris, and some other test done... I got in Fri and at 12am - 6am which that was Sat morning the cardio was called to my bed side where I almost died... They put a patch on my chest to lower my bp and things got out of control. I couldnt breath - struggling to breath from 12-6am and they thought I was going to stop breathing... this was very scarey... Now, since I've been out I'm still having trouble breathing ( chest hurts ), and very dizzy. All my test came back fine.. But my twin said go back something is wrong - he said he knew something was wrong with me the day before I went in thats why he had made plan to come see me the next day. My doctor want to see me first thing in the morning - please keep me in your prayers.
OH... right now my bp is just jumping: bottom number from 67 up to 112 with constant heart pains!!!! Tylenol is working!!! & on top of that my head just spins..
WAIT I WAS TYPING AND STILL VERY DIZZY: I MEANT TO SAY THAT THE TYLENOL ISNT ISNT WORKING!
You should not be typing this if you're having chest pains and your BP is so out of control -- did they put you on medication before you left? Did you have a heart stress test? Tylenol is not the answer here. Did they check your lungs for a clot? Have you tried any relaxers, like Xanax -- they may help your symptoms, blood pressure as well as anxiety.
Try to sort out what is real and what is you having panics from all the symptoms you've been having this time - but do see your doctor soon. Go back to the ER if this continues.
What's your diet like? Are you drinking lots of coffee, tea or soda? Are you taking ANY OTC supplements? Diet pills? Weight loss pills? Energy pills? Anything?