Hi everyone. My mother had a brain stem stroke 3 years ago where she was in the ICU for 2 weeks and went through intense physiotherapy and massage alternate days for a few months. She was able to stand 4 months after the stroke and at this point, she is physically mobile and fine. Her eyes suffer a bad squint and she has no vertical vision. She is getting surgery to correct the squint in 2 weeks. So physically, she is quite ok. The major problem lies in her absololute un-motivation to do anything on her own. She has no self-motivation. And i don't know if it's because of brain damage or depression. We live in South East Asia and unfortunately, after-care is basic here and difficult to get. She has to be reasoned with to get out of bed or take a shower or brush her teeth. And at times, she has to be forced. This was a woman who worked full-time, took care of the house and family full-time, jogged 2 hours a day 5 times a week and cared for everyone. Now her daily activities are reduced to an hour's walk in the afternoon and a shower. We have help at home which may be making things worse. But i have no idea what to do. She is anything but independent and i believe if she continues on like this, she will forget how to do things on her own. I am an only child and can;t move on with life if she stays this way. Has anyone had a similar situation? Will anti-depressants work? Do they make them even more 'out of it' and detatched from the external world? Will amino acids help? help.
Everyones comments are very encouraging. My mother (53 years old) had a very sever stroke on 2-13-06. She required surgery to stop the bleeding int he brain, and no only was she bleeding she has a very LARGE blood clot. She was in ICU for a week, intermediate care for a week, hospital for about 3 weeks, 2 more weeks in the hospital rehab and is now in a skilled nursing home. She is doing remarkably well for them telling us she most likely wasn't going to make it through the first night let alone 48 hours. She is a fighter and had many health problems before this all happend. She moves her arms and legs fine, she walks pretty good with her walker, however she is very confused and within last two weeks the confusion has been getting worse NOT better. She has trouble getting out what she wants to say, and reading and writing. She is going to see the doctor today, I will be sure to ask about the amino acids. She just isn't her old self yet, but each day it is remarkable to see what progress she makes (at least up untill last week). Hopefully she will be able to get to a point where she can safely live in an assisted living facility, but I guess we are just lucky to have her here with us, and doing as well as she is doing.
As joesi said do not give up
work towards finding solution & once u know the solution just go for it relentlessly.
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I think there are 8 essential amino acids that the human body requires. You might want to look for a product that contains at least those. Searching the web is a great place to start and learn about the role amino acids/proteins play in your body. I'm sure your local GNC or other nutrition store could be helpful. Always check with your physician first. The one thing I have learned, there is no magic pill or treatment for brain damage caused by a stroke. I have also learned that you can never give up. Recovery is slow but the gains you make are not temporary. New research has shown that the brain may find ways around the damaged areas when challenged to do so. That means YOU must keep up with your daily therapies, exercises, and proper diet. The more you read about the cause and effects of a stroke, the better you will understand what you need to do and why. Never give up.
After spending the last year researching issues of a stroke, I can't emphasize enough how important amino acids are to recover. Amino acids are derived from whey which is derived from cows milk. It's protein. Consider that, most weight lifters and body builders will take liquid amino acids before and after a workout. In my opinion, stroke patients need more protein/amino acids in order to recover from the trama. It is also thought that amino acids produced by the human body are the proteins that facilitate the function of neuron transmitters in the brain. A proper, high protien diet may aid in recovery. Think - eat like a body builder.
thanks for the info!this may sound like a stupid question, but is there a certain amino acid i should look into, or would i just be shopping for something that says "amino acid" on the label?
Just a note of encouragement to all survivors out there I was a busy,37 yr. old stay at home mom when a stroke floored me on 12-5-05. I am happy to say I am walking cane free now,although my gait is still hobbled. /No use of my left arm still. I stay frustrated a lot, but God has blessed me with a wonderful husband and terrific church family.I would love to hear any rehab treatments that have been successful-I'm going to start pt again next weekand have looked at info on the biomove.
Take heart all. My wife of 34 years had a hemorrhagic stroke on March 30, 05 She was 53 years old. It was a rather nasty stroke. The aneurysm that bled was 16mm x 22mm. She required 13 (yes, I said 13) platinum coils. About 14 feet of wire. Three weeks in ICU and another three weeks in rehab. She was totally paralyzed at first. Her most significant impairment today is the loss of her left peripheral vision in both eyes. We didn't get a lot of support or encouragement from the medical world. What I found was a product called eye lights (www.eyelights.com). It helped a lot. Then I found a simple eye test/exercise she could do on line two or three times per day. Similar to the same test her eye doctor gave her every month. It helped. www.testvision.org/decide.html Next, I researched what happens in the brain during a bleed. It is thought amino acids play a significant role. Apparently, during the bleed, the brain over produces amino acids (which the brain uses normally to facilitate the neurons to fire). The over production of amino acids, it is thought, cause some neurons to basically overload and burn out. In my wife's case, her personality became flat after the stroke. Six months after the stroke, I gave her some liquid amino acids (seems the liquid is best), which can be purchased at one's local GNC store(same stuff I used when I was body building). I WAS AMAZED. In just about 30 minutes, her old personality came back. Up to that point, her monthly vision tests were not improving. After taking the amino acids every day, her next vision test showed remarkable, substantial and significant improvements and continued for several months after. Although she still has some vision loss, she continues to improve over a year later.
NEVER GIVE UP. Stroke patients need the help and moral support of their significant others. NEVER GIVE UP.
thank you so much for writing back...i was checking like two and three times a day! but after reading some of these other posts, i can see there are so many people who are in such awful shape. thank you for your advice. unfortunately, things are not much better for him at the moment. his mother had a falling out with some of her family and took him from the house where they were living. they are now in a hotel. i can't sleep at night for worrying about him. i am almost considering taking them into my home, but that is a definite thinker. i don't know if i would have the means to support such a decision. if he could just get somewhere where he felt safe and grounded, i think his recovery would really improve. i just miss him, you know? he's still in there somewhere, but i hate seeing him so passive and quiet now.
It sounds like his prognosis is good, but you are worried about your friend. Since your friend is 18, he may still be able to go to the Saint Jude's children's Hospital for treatment. This treatment is free if he qualifies. In the meantime see if the family will allow you to give him physical therapy between the PT visits. If they will allow it, have the therapist show you what to do. The more he does, the better it will be for him in his rehab. Good Luck