My 78 year old mom suffered a hemorrhagic stroke a month ago, we had been unable to awake her, but she now open her eyes move her right hand and both of her feet, the doctors say she is not being responsive and her movement is just her reflexes but if we're standing in the room talking she opens her eyes if we ask her to squeeze our hand she will squeeze it, also her tongue is swollen so large she's unable to close her mouth the doctors don't know what caused it and they say they never seen it happen before but some of nurses say they have had patients whose tongues have swollen, we had one doctor tell us with her age she's going to die because part of her brain had turned to mush, I told him we're all due to leave here eventually and besides what type of medical term is mush, she's breathing on her own, i'm really seeking info or at the least encouragement....