I totally understand the frustration you guys are talking about. right now I'm in a tizzy because AF should have shown up fri or sat, but haven't started yet. my cycles too are 28 days, af comes like clockwork, never miss, never late.
of course I tested this morning at 3am and got a bfn. really, really hoping for a bfp, but also feel like this is some cruel joke.
have had several twinges in my abdomen, normally only have one big twinge then af starts. been queasy all weekend and breasts while not sore are tender. typically have no soreness at all by this time.
will wait a few days and test again, sooooo scared hoping this is not menopause!
catherine
I am so sorry to hear this. Be strong and keep on trying.
We all have been there. There were times when I AF arrives, deep inside I still have some hope that at least one of the embryos survived. Stupid, I know. The desire to have babies is so strong, it clouds my judgment at times.
Don't lose hope.
Sending sticky baby dusts to all of you!
Sorry it didn't work out for you this month. Sending you extra helpings of SSBD for next month!
p.s. I started spotting before my period this last year and my cycle got a little shorter here and there. Still I'm 20 wks along now. Good luck to all!
AF came this morning full blown, never had this happen b4 my cycles are 28 days with no spotting. I don't understand sometimes I think I have a problem holding on to the embie my dr did blood test for it but said test came back good I don't know.
Thanks for all your comments.
Baby Dust To You All!!!!!!!!
I think this has happened to everybody. Keep on tryin'! I do.
Best wishes,
~Wendy
Hi hun yeh i know ive given up doing tests now i just wait for AF and she always comes boo hoo,keep hoping every month but it gets more difficult.Im due AF now and my emotions are everywhere.SSBD xx
I HATE it when that happens...so many times I think, yay! It's implantation bleeding and then AF starts and I feel like I can't go on...it's such a cruel joke! When I was trying naturally my AF would be late and I would be so excited and I would wait and wait. Then after a few days, I would go and get a HPT. I swear, the minute I tear off the cover and was about to pee on it, AF would come!
Implantation bleeding and cramps would happen a few days before AF is due but then again, some people implant later.
well af started showinng not alot just moderate with cramps.
Could be signs of pregnancy. If you don't wake up with your period tomorrow morning; I would be peeing on a stick. First urine of the morning would be best. Wish you a BFP!!