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I think i ripped something : /
If your having sex and your like going fullforce and the boys thing comes out and like hits you above the hole and youstart bleeding ALOT. and then it hurts to pee even the next day t stings when you pee and whipe. what happend? and what should i do?
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It is easily possible for something to rip or tear when having rough sex, but there really isn't anything you can do about it after it has already happened. You'll just have to allow your body time to heal itself and just stay away from sex for a while to give your body a break. Having a burning sensation/pain while urinating is a sign of infection, so it may be a good idea to be checked by your doctor for a UTI. If you had unprotected sex, you may also want to ask to be tested for STDs when you are at the doctor's office as well. Also, I suggest you talk to the guy you had sex with about being more gentle and tell him that he hurt you.
i get sooo many uti's and a couple months ago i had one and alot of itching(2 tired to remember the name) and i guess in my sleep i was scratching or something so ontop of burning in general and pain from the cut itself, when the pee got into that it hurt like hell. it could be any of that like sweetpea said.
yeahhh i meann its ok. he said sorry for saying that. and i just said like its better if we just have some time apart cuz u need t figure out if u really want this or no.
I'm sorry as well, but it sounds like it's for the best. It's better you found out now rather than later about how much he truly cared. You'll find someone better in the future.
I'm sorry, he sounds really immature to say anything like that. It's really his loss that he is missing out.
its okkkk. im fine with it. he basiically said it all how he didnt care and i was holding him back from getting other girlss. so i mean there was really nothing to hold on to
I'm sorry to hear that, but this might be something good for you. There were a lot of negatives that you brought up about him, so next time you can find someone who is a better fit for you. Take some time for yourself and enjoy just being with friends. Then think about and learn from this relationship, so that your next one is better. hugs.
Are you going to stay with your bf? I remember you writing about him in the relationships community and also, if all of your friends don't like him, that is a bit of a red flag to pay attention to.
no its completely fine haha. i get cmments like that about him all the time...none of my friends like him at all.
Lol, sorry. I just hate when people do that stuff. If my husband was like that to me he would eat his teeth.
hahahaahah i love how u out extremely in caps haha i couldnt agree more.
and ok (: thankx i will take all the time I need he can wait hehe
and ok (: thankx i will take all the time I need he can wait hehe
Wait until it's fully healed. The amount of time it could take varies. I cut myself down there at two different times, and it took a month to fully heal. Your boyfriend is EXTREMELY selfish to put his own desires above your well being. Tell him to back off about it, it'll happen when your body is healed.
well it isnt red anymore its tarting to already look like nothing really happened. and a for pain...hmmm it doesnt really sting as much when i go to the bathroom. but i cant thank you enough for your help i was really freaked out. i have another question its kinda weird to ask but my bf is all like when can we do it again blah blah. ....i dont want it to like re open or something. soo i should wait a long time right?
There really isn't anything you can do to speed up the healing process. I'd just keep an eye on the area for infection(itchiness, odor, pus/different discharge, etc) and if that happens, would suggest going to see your doctor. Otherwise, you can take over the counter pain medication if it hurts badly for the time being. If the pain and cut do not go away or if it gets worse, then make sure to see your doctor.
it'll heal up on it's own. I wouldn't put any creams or ointments on it because the skin on your vagina is very sensitive and different than other parts of your body. It should heal and go away in a week or so. Hope it's not hurting as bad.
thankyou.
wud u mind if i sort of kept u up to date because i have no one else to really talk to about it
wud u mind if i sort of kept u up to date because i have no one else to really talk to about it
It could be either one, I can't tell from what you wrote. You can wait a few days and see if it starts to get better. If it doesn't get better or if it gets worse, then you'll need to see your doctor. Hope it heals up quick for you.
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