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Scared Of Having Sex

Ok I'm 14 and really scared of having sex but only with a male mainly in scared of breaking my hymen is this normal?...
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Why be pressured into having intercourse at your age if you really don't want to now?  Your body and mind are still growing.  Make the most of your schooling and prepare yourself for your future as a successful adult.  
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Everyone gets a little nervous, I'm 17 currently, I was 16 when I lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 2 years. I was terrified before and after sex but everything turned out all right. Both my friends didn't have any pain or blood when the hymen broke. I on the other hand felt alot of pain and bled for 3 days (which is normal!!!) don't freak out if that happens. Everyone's hymens are different. If you have cramps on your period the pain is no worse than that. It wasn't a pain that made me stop having sex and I feel I had it pretty rough. I still have sex to this day. Im confident you will be fine when the time comes. Remember safe sex and planned parent hood gives minors free birth control pills, iud (I got the iud works like a charm), condoms, ring, arm insert, etc. Not only is it free but they DO NOT tell your parents or legal guardian.
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