Okay, I am almost fourteen. I have had my period for about 2 years now. I am niether sexually active, nor have I even been fingered. I have used a tampon two or three times, and each time it was veeerrrry painful, I am positive that the tampon wasn't too dry because it was dripping blood, and my eyes were watering because it was so painful. But the other day I built up the courage, so i was going to try it again... Well all was well until i noticed, after a little research, I have a freaking septate hymen! So now im screwed and i hate nasty ole pads so I just don't know. But my questions are:
1. Do you have to get surgery to remove the septum?
2. If so, is it painful? Do they deaden it perhaps? How long does it take? Will it be sore? And any other helpful things.
3. If I don't have to get surgery what is an easy or atleast kind of easy way to break the septum?
P.S. please feal free to ask any questions or give any other helpful things.