sorry, my post was ment for another thread topic
asking the question "normal age for o"
i had 2 windows open and somehow posted under this one
again sorry for the confusion, i will try to be more careful
its so funny that i saw this post today'
last week i was dicussing this topic with my girlfriends at church of all places
somehow we got to talking about our first orgasim
mine was so late in life that the other girls were shocked
all spoke about using the shower head or stuffed animals when they were little
so i guess more people do have this experience
nothing to worry about
and fyi....after this conversation i noticed that it was more common to have the big "o" as a child then having one after delivering 2 kids
go figure
i am 15 years old and my boyfriend wants to start having oral sex and i am ready to but my vangina is always red ( the lips ) and i dont no what to do about it i dont want to go to a docter or tell my mum because i am embarresed and i just need to no what to try to get rid of the redness?
the bumps could be sweat glands and the other stuff can be discharge, all of this is perfectly normal, some people have dreams that cause them to do this, other girls are have more of a natural lubercant than others
what you are going through happens to a good amount of people, so dont fret
i am not a teen, but i am still scared of the obgyn, even though i am a heath care provider and know better, i sometimes skip my years paps
but thats the wrong thing to do
can you talk to your mom about taking you to the doc?
Girl, you are old enough, and you really should, and need to see a gynecologist. The first time is always scary but it's not nearly as bad as you fear. Ask someone for a name of someone whom you can trust. you have a lot of concerns and for that reason you need to be examined. What you are describing can be nothing at all in terms of seriousness, or it may be something like endometriosis. (I am too tired to exlain what it is but you can look it up) But that is only 1 out of many possibilities. It usually also causes painful cramps and pain with diarrhea. The pain with peeing could be anything from a yeast infection to a bladder infection or other.
Really, you will feel so much better if you go and find out what's up. living with this fear is just as bad as it gets, don't you think so? You'll be OK. kat