is this human nature, or am i losing it?

[lily12419]

is it normal to get really bad social depression when you havent interacted much with friends for a few days? or they lack communication with you? ive always had this kind of depression since i was younger with finding it hard to make friends.. but its pretty severe when its happening. also its a bit of paranoia etc
another thing is i have extreme hatred towards the girl my ex slept with, she ruined my life yet she has so many friends, a great life etc.. she completely ruined my life and ive never been so down about it, and ive never hated someone so much!
also this boy i like now has been saying he liks me for ages, then has completely stopped talking to me after getting my hopes up.. yet again, depression!

so, so many ****** things have happened recently and i'm a constant heap of sadness, i dont want any prozac or anything because this isnt a constant thing. i just need advise!

i just dont feel normal, im constantly withdrawn and miserable and the fact i suffer with anxiety doesnt help this all at all.

[lily12419]

this made me so happy, thankyou so much :) il take each day as they come and try and live it instead of dwelling :)

[Dr. Kokil Mathur]

Hi!
I would just say that it is part of life! Many a times it appears that we are being met with injustice. However, if we look back we do realize that that the person was not good for us. Also when one is experimenting with sexual relationships, one can come across relationships that may not materialize. So take a day as it comes. Meet up with friends. Talk about your feelings with a friend you are close to—another girl you are close to. You will find that your peers too are facing these problems. And this certainly does not mean that there is anything wrong with you. You are special and one day will meet your special someone. Until then enjoy life—its all yours and you deserve the best! So, go out and explore the world. Be happy. Let not another girl or a man ruin your life. You are the best! Have confidence in yourself. A person who does not realize your worth is not worthy of you. Take care!