do u know what's made him worse? stress family anything? it could be something more is getting to him..maybe u can talk to him and find out..and get him to come there or visit the next break u get or for a weekend? I hope it gets better
When I left he got really depressed and he keeps saying I left him. He wants me to give up my scholarship and ce back.
When I talk to him about coming here he says no and gets really mad. It usually starts a huge fight.
but if u still r in a relationship and love each other and trying to make things work u haven't left him. it heart is with him always:( does he know even with distance it feelings haven't changed? I've been where u r situational wise. is something stopping him from coming to u other than he changed his mind?
We are still together. I love him too much. It's unhealthy even. He says he loves me too and I would suppose it's true since he hasn't left for good.
I spend a lot of time trying to make him happy and I've become a rag which he throws around. He doesn't ask me how I'm doing anymore or inquire about my situation. He said it was was more trouble that it was worth to come. He doesn't want to anymore.
He said that his safe haven (aka me) is gone. Now he has to learn to live without love and he's repeating the same cycle of depression, reckless behavior, stability, loss of stability and repeat.
u can't just give up school tho :/ his haven isn't gone really he still can talk to u when he needs and wants to. is there a weekend u can talk face to face with him?
We skype every other day or so.
He doesn't want to talk to anyone.
I just need to convince him to come here somehow