Am I Pregnant !?

[Yosii]

Hi. I had my period back in December 2011 and was expecting my next period aroun Jan 23, 2012. I was not sexually active during the time, but, in Jan 22, 2012 I had unprotected sex just ONCE. I have not gotten my period since then and I did a home pregnancy test and results came out to be positive but one line is very dark and the other very light, barely able to tell. Does this mean I am really pregnant even if I had not yet gotten my period and had unprotected sex just ONE time? I have been pregnant before and became a Mom to a still born baby. These symptoms are much more different than my first pregnancy, if in case I am pregnant now. I have had really bad headaches for the passed days and my nipples seem to be a little sensative but not my whole breast. Also, my first pregnancy I got a bad rash on my cleavage and I am now starting to get one. Do you think I may be pregnant from just a one time thing ? Help please!

[Yosii]

I already talked to my babys father and apparantly he doesnt seem to want to be involved in my pregnancy which I did not, at all expect this from him ! Its really much harder now that I see things are really gonna go bad without neither his or my Familys support. I dont want to go through this on my own and just raise a child myself. I want a Family not having to struggle and I am now having doubts about keeping the baby. I know it was somewhat my fault for being stupid and get into such thing but I wouldnt knw this would happen to me. Im really angry and sad at the same time about the babys Dad reaction about it instead of helping me. Im so confused what do you reccommend me ? :(

[Imdone12]

Sometimes that how guys are but you won't know until you talk to him. If he tries to tell you that the baby is not his then you will have to get a paternity test once the baby is born and he will have to give you child support. But don't worry about that yet maybe he will be ok with it. Doo. You will be 18 which is young but not super young. You could try to start looking for a job now before you start showing that way you will have some income and be able to get a place of you need to. Your dad won't think the worst of you just explain it to him. Parents only want what is best fr there children and no one wants to see there child have a baby because they don't want your life to be any harder than it has to be and having a baby at such a young age does make everything harder bug since you have been through this before you already know this. Your parents will come around it might take some time though. Did tey talk to you last time when you weren't living with them or did they completely cut you off? This time your a little bit older Sony may not be as bad. But also since you have already gotten pregnant they may be more upset that it happened again.  (Im not saying that to be mean or anything, no judging here I had 3 kids by the time I was 22, now I'm 25 and things are finally starting to fall into place but it is hard) just tell your parents the truth they will love you no matter what they just might be upset for a little while. I'm here if you need to talk

[Yosii]

Yes I live with both my parents. If I talk to my Dad im so embarrassed to tell him how things happen he will think the worse of me which I dont want to happen. Yes I didnt want my friend to know but maybe the best thing to do is tell him and talk to him. No I dont know his parents but maybe they wont be mad since hes almost 23. He really loves kids so maybe he will be supportive but maybe not since it was just a one night stand. Im scared at the fact that what if he thinks its not his and stuff like that. I dont work but he does.

[Imdone12]

You keep saying he so I'm assuming you live with your dad? Maybe try to talk to hI'm and tell him how much you need him to support you. Idk you have a little hot of time to figure things out and see what you can do about your living situtation and hopefully things will work out for you. You said that you and the father of the baby are "friends" if so maybe he will help you I recommend that you tell him first and maybe the two of you can come up with some sort of plan before you tell your parents. Do either one of you work? Do you know his parents? Will they be supportive? Please let me know how things go.

[Yosii]

I went to the clinic and got it confirmed. I am pregnant ! Im going on 7 weeks in 2 days. Last time I was pregnant they kicked me out and made me live with my boyfriend the father of my Son but he took me back because me and him had problems after my pregnancy was over . But, hes always reminding me that its my only chance back and if I mess up again I have no way back. Hes extremely strict and for sure know I would be kicked out after I tell him. I have no idea on telling this guy but Im gonna have to think of something. I want to keep the baby but im really scared about support on both sides.

[Imdone12]

If your scared that your patents will kick you out then I would wait till you are 100% sure even though I'm pretty sure you are. I would go see a dr and find out exactly how far along you are and go from there. You will have to tell them sooner or later. And as for the father you should just tell him and tell him that it only takes once and hopefully he will be supportive and help you come up with a plan if you do get kicked out. Last time your parents kicked you out did they kick you out for good or were they just upset? Where did you stay last time. Do you I've any grandparents or aunts and uncles or any family that will help you. Do you plan on keeping the baby?

[Yosii]

@kimlouise. Yes I Also heard to get a positive its really hard if you're not actually pregnant so I'm guessing I Am. Thanks

[Yosii]

@imdone12. Yes I have family but im really scared to tell them because they will kick me out like my first pregnancy and I wouldnt have anywhere to stay. I am 17 turning 18 this summer. I dont know how to tell my friend I am pregnant since we only had sex once and he is not my boyfriend.

[KymLouise]

my pregnancy test came out the same. it was hard to read because it was so faint. but i did another one a week later and i could definatley tell it was positive. they say you can get fake negatives but not fake positives :-\ so im guessing ur pregnant, and it only takes the once. good luck!

[Imdone12]

It only takes one time. And no matter how light the line is if it's there then it is positive. And if your last period was in December them I would guess your about 8 weeks already. I would suggest that you go see a dr. Do you have family you can talk to about this? How old are you? Please keep us posted