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Had a miscarriage

I just wanted to update everyone and let them all know i had a miscarriage last night. Sadly there was nothing i could to prevent it. It all started with spotting and the blood got very heavy. I wanted this baby more then anything in my life right now and it hurts to know it all had to be taking away from me. Im wishing for the best for my future. And Im hoping that if anyones bleeding starts to get a little heavy they check it out right away and not wait around for a day or two like I did. I honestly feel like it's my fault but then again I know it wasn't in Gods plans for me right now. Thanks so much for everyones advice and support it all meant alot to me.
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514633 tn?1213222079
Thats so tough; I'm sorry that you have to go through this, I hope everything pans out for you tho.
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510772 tn?1211804722
i have had 3 miscarrages i no how hard it is i was only 15 when i had my 1st one, it is the worst pain you can ever experance i no, but in the end your be ok you will smile agen! just becouse you have had one dose not mean there is anything wrong with you it so common to lose your 1st pregnancy, just rember next time you are ttc start taking pg vits and eat well, and think postive you wont need any unessasery stress but it will go without saying you are gonna worry. things will be ok
all the best
katharine x
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172023 tn?1334672284
I'm sorry for your loss.  Its very sad.

However, waiting for a day or two did not contribute to your miscarriage.  There is nothing that can be done that early.  You did everything appropriately.  Sadly, if a woman is cramping and spotting, only time will tell the story of what will happen.  

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I'm sorry to hear! that really sucks!
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Hi there.  I am sorry for your loss.   Just keep in mind that God has the big plan for all of us.   While I am sure nothing will take the pain away of the loss.   I believe God has a way of making things all work out in the end.   We never know why we have to experience the pain of loss.  I work in Labor and Delivery and whenever I  care for patients losing a baby I feel their pain of the loss and guilt that something they did caused this.   There is nothing you did to cause this or you wouldn't of done it.    The pain of the loss when you do have a baby will only make you a better loving parent because you truly want one with all your heart and soul.   Take time to heal you heart and remember this when you get that little bundle of joy.  
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342988 tn?1299782356
I'm so sorry for your loss.
I miscarried twice within 5 months and am just going to start TTC again.  it is a hard thing to go through but use this forum to just talk and vent to all of us other women who have gone through it to.
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hiya so sorry for your loss i know what your going throught i went throught it all last week. apart from i miscarried while i was in hospital. at  first i had the ultrasound scan and they thought i was earlier than i said i was 2 days later i started having really painful back pains (unbarable) later on that night i started bleading lightly and it got heavier throught th night. when i had my first blood test hcg was 1800 which i was told was normal in early pregnancy.after i had my second blood test the hcg went down to 400. all this time i was in hospital on my own hoping and preying every night and day tht my baby would be fine. it is very stressful and emotional even years later. good luck for the next time i wish u all the best xxx
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256553 tn?1258883918
So sorry to hear about your loss.
Take the time you need to heal and have faith that all willwork out for you.
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187316 tn?1386356682
Hi sweetie I'm sorry to hear about this. I know how hard it can be to have a miscarriage... how emotionally and physically draining it is. Don't beat yourself up though about not going to the doctor... at such as early stage they wouldn't have been able to stop it. A lot of people are more fertile after a miscarriage as well. I know that you want THIS baby (I hate people telling me I would get pregnant again) but the way I look at it is if I hadn't lost my first baby I would of never gotten a Aspen.
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Thanks everyone for showing all your love and support its exactly what i need right about now!
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384896 tn?1335294331
I'm so sorry for your loss. =[
I miscarried twice before I got pregnant with this one... and it was very heart breaking.
But you can always try again, so keep your chin up.
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290867 tn?1333569278
I am so sorry to hear that honey...I know how hard it is to be going through this so if you need to talk at all I am here. Just PM me okay. I will keep you and your family in my prayers...

Lindsey
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446785 tn?1221695214
Sorry to hear that with my first pregnancy I started spotting light pink drips and I said nothing to no one. I figured everything was okay since it was light and I have heard many people saying that light is not bad but then throughtout the day it got heavier and heavier. I ended up having a m/c and blamed my self for not going to er when i first started spotting...but things happen u just have to live and learn(now if u living and not learning...thats a problem LOL) Just stay positive about the situation you cant beat urself up about b/c things that are meant to happen will happen and if it was meant to be it would be and I am a firm believer of that. Keep praying and have faith!!!GOOD LUCK
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427258 tn?1266445242
sorry to hear that. its good though that you can sit back and look it from the angle you do. if u ever want to talk, im here. ive been in your shoes and understand what ur feeling.
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