Is she pregnant ?

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Hi guys, im a little worried for my girlfriend as to whether she is pregnant or not. On the 24/6/13, she and I started making out and she started to give me a handjob while i fingered her but no sperms or *** were in contact. After which i just briefly wiped her hands with a tissue and actually gotten some on my hand which i too, briefly wiped it away. After which we proceed to take a nap for about 50mins or so, i started fingering her again with the same hand. The question i would like to ask is that could she be pregnant from this? we were both in an air conditioned room and when we were napping, our hands were like wiping all over the place, on the bed, on the sheets etc.

However things to note is that after 12 days from that 5/7/13, she had a tiny bit of brown blood that was relative to a size of a coin or a grown-adult thumb just for one moment. After that it stopped and a week later on the 12/7/13, she had a bit of brownish discharge which she told me. She has an irregular cycle as her previous period was 2 months apart while the one before that was 6 months apart. It runs in her family. Other than that, she doesn't experience any cramping, frequent urination, morning sickness or tender breast.

arlandonbloom · Accepted Answer

Those symptoms she is experiencing could be signs that her period is coming. I honestly doubt that you got her pregnant just by fingering her, and since you wiped the ejaculation off of her hands, and took a 50 minute nap, any ejaculation would have dried which would have killed the sperm and since you fingered her again after, if you had sperm on your hand, it would have dried and died. If her periods are irregular, I would wait another few days to see if it comes and I'm sorry if this is rude, but if she is pregnant, she is going to have to take the responsibility to at least check... If she is willing to be doing these adult games, she has to take the responsibility and do the adult thing. Whether she is pregnant or not.

AnnieBrooke · Answer

I just get the feeling she is clear she is not pregnant and is getting a bit exasperated over you not believing what she says.  Please let it drop for now, she will tell you if she discovers she is wrong.  It doesn't sound like she is; if there was the slightest chance, she would be acting more interested.

specialmom · Answer

You can stop in any drug store or grocery store or Wal Mart and buy an inexpensive home pregnancy test.  She pees on a stick and it says yes or not.  Very accurate, very easy.  If you are having sex then it shouldn't be a big deal to take an at home pregnancy test.  If just buying the test and taking it is upsetting, then I 'd say that having sex isn't the wisest decision for the two of you.  

good luck

Stylez1303 · Answer

Any other input is still welcome and greatly appreciated !

Stylez1303 · Answer

Thanks for the input guys ! I have broached the subject a few times but to no avail. I guess i just got to wait till her period comes then. Thank you !

Stylez1303 · Answer

Sorry, my bad. I meant a home test. I guess there isnt much i  can do now either

AnnieBrooke · Answer

I didn't suggest anyone "go" for a pregnancy test, a home test would be quite adequate, one pees on a stick in the privacy of one's own home.  I hope you are not badgering her with suggestions she go see a doctor.

It is no big deal to take a home test, but if she is trying to get through to you that she is certain she is not pregnant, she is not going to welcome you pushing on her about it in a paranoid way.  There is really nothing to be lost in waiting until her period comes for sure, it is not like she could take the morning-after pill right now and have any effect.  Leave her alone if she has told you in no uncertain terms that she can tell she is not pregnant.

Stylez1303 · Answer

Oh its fhe 7 June!

AnnieBrooke · Answer

Are you doing your dates the British way or the American way?  I read the last sentence as saying her last period was on July 6.  Do you mean June 7?

Stylez1303 · Answer

Thanks for the imput but she is quite against the idea for going for a pregnancy test as she insist that she is fine abd not pregnant. Is there any other way to tell? Its hard because her period is irregular. Her last period was on the 7/6/13 while the one before that was on 9/4/13

AnnieBrooke · Answer

It's not too early to take a pregnancy test, if the incident you think might have gotten her pregnant was on the 24th of June.  Whether or not her periods are irregular, if she was ovulating that day and some sperm magically got through to the egg, by now the egg would have implanted in the uterus and will be producing hCG.  So a pregnancy test will be able to pick it up.

My guess is that the new spotting is from her period coming up.  But she can test tomorrow morning and get a definite answer.

Stylez1303 · Answer

Someone help pls? Im quite worried and its been bugging me for a week ever since she told me about the brown blood

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