Hi, I have had TMJ since I can remember. When I was an older teen, I was prescribed braces because they felt that aligning my top and bottom teeth would solve my problem. It didn't. I am now 40f. I have had arthrocentesis in both sides, with very little improvement. I see a specialist in TMJ who tells me my case is very severe and he has been urging me for at least a year to get a full surgical joint surgery with new implants. I have heard awful things about that type of surgery. I feel like I haven't heard anything positive. I know when I see him, he is frustrated because my jaw hardly opens and it sounds like crumbling rocks, no more popping, that was the good ole days. His frustration is that I won't give in to surgery. He is not the surgeon, by the way, and he says he rarely refers patients for surgery.
I feel bad that I am not persuing his advice, as he is highly regarded in the TMJ community, but I have serious heart issues, a pacemaker. I crushed my back last year and am trying to function after major back surgery and rehab. So, with all considered, although my jaw is awful, I have a bunch of other serious issues that always seem to take president. Whenever I bring up his recommendations to family and friends they say, NO! YOU CANT! You just cant! It makes me very depressed, because my jaw is a nightmare, but in everyone else's eyes it is just incidental and not important.
What should I do? Anything at all would help. I mean at this point I believe I have an infection in my spine, so again that takes priority, but my appointment with my TMJ doc. is coming right up. HELP!!!