My name is Donna. When I was 7 I was in a bike accident that dislocated the attachment from my vaginal lips and the vaginal muscle wall right at the entrance. The vaginal muscle never formed right. It stayed small and tight like a pin hole appendage and blocked things from entering. I was never aware of the issue and didn't realize how different I was until my 3rd child. My husband knew something was wrong down there and I could never figure out how tampons worked... At 17 weeks into my last pregnancy they discovered cervical cancer while I was pregnant. After the baby was born I went in for a cone biopsy and instead the doctor removed my entire vaginal wall muscle all together because he couldn't get into it as it was so tightly closed to do the cone biopsy... It was a while before I understood what happened and I couldn't do anything about it. I wasnt aware of what he had done. It's sad that if I had known how simple it could have been just sewing the entrance of the lips to the vaginal muscle was ... a simple procedure and then a series of Botox injections could help open it up and stretch it out eventually to have a real sex life.
Now there is nothing to save. Just an opening into the vault.
I am now dating someone amazing but knowing I don't have the right anatomy encourages desperate deep despair and sadness at the prospect of never marrying.
Is there any surgery that could restore what this doctor took? Is there any way to have what every other woman has?
Is there a surgery where you can put vaginal wall in from an organ donor?
I heard of it being done in 1981 a mother donated hers to her daughter.
Is there anyone who can help me with where to start? Who does this?