Hi I'm 47
Problems started after birth, (5 yrs) low back pain, feeling pressure on inside of spine, some numbness around buttocks & sciatic like pain, bladder irritation & weakness, along with some bowel problems, mostly folding outwards & sore & swollen for a while after passing BM, I do have other weird symptoms GP blamed on stress….. eventually FMS & later M.E diagnosis…. So has taken a long time to get other problems taken seriously.
Problem worse over time, can no longer empty my bowels, without using hands to push a large bulge in Vagina, back to my bowel, often (7-10 day B4 periods) BM are so wide, have to use both hands to shape smaller & pass… easier giving birth ..lol …. takes a long time, up to an hour, leaves me feeling sick, often bleeding, with a sore & very swollen, protruding anus…..which settles later.
I can’t wait to pass BM, need to stay close to a toilet, or in trouble, dizzy nauseous, on verge of passing out, also feeling pressure & tearing pain, & pressure on inside of spine, making back pain, Sciatica & numbness worse
I also need to “rock” back & forth, in order to move stools down, it also feels my bladder is blocked by bowel, as can only urinate fully after BM.
Bladder problems are… stress incontinence, slight incontinence AFTER seemingly emptying bladder, frequent urination…day & night, again worse pre menstually…often up to 7 times a night, some burning….no infection
I also suffer with extremely heavy preiods (house bound for 2 days
Finally saw Nuero Gynae, yesterday, Outcome was, Physio for slight uterine prolapse, & more test to check Muscle & nerve function of bladder, NOTHING for BM, queried this, & repeated how bad the bowel problem is, specialist shrugged her shoulders & said “can’t see it”
How can I get them to believe this, as only obvious, when need BM, & can’t show them, as can’t leave the house without having passed BM……I’m at a loss, & scared this is only going to get worse, as it has done over last few years…Thanks!!