ok....so the other night i had sex, and well i don't remember it all. lets just say that. Pretty sure it was rough, because now it hurts to go to the bathroom. I thought that was normal. I hadn't had sex in almost 1 year, and before that it was 2 years ago. So i knew i was going to be in pain the next day. Well it was bleeding slightly, and i figured i was just getting my period. Its been 2 days and i have yet to have my period, so i looked. It looks as if i might have torn something down there, and not sure if this is possible, but something is now a straight and sticking out. hard to explain. All i know is that i when i think i have to go the bathroom i dread it, i go and then a unbearable pain occurs, and then i have alittle bit of blood. but then afterwords i feel like i still have to go to the bathroom, but i don't. what does this mean? i am currently in a different location than home, and i don't even know where i would go to get some help. i have health insurance from college, but i don't know if it works so far away. i just need help.