I'm 50 years old and my urinary flow has decreased over the past years. Honestly, I've had less "water pressure" than most guys for at least 15 years, but, in the last three years or so, it's become more noticable. Years ago, I'd say I my flow was 20% to 30% less than my friends. (A guy notices things like that). Now, it's maybe 40% less from normal. In the hours after sex, it's maybe 60% less than normal.
I don't have any pain. I don't wake up overnight to urinate, unless I drink a large amount of fluids just before bedtime. And, in that case, it's only one trip to the bathroom.
I told this to my regular doctor and she had me take a PSA test. It came back 4.4. She insists that I see a urologist, since prostate cancer is a possibility.
But if the urologist does find that my prostate has cancer, I wouldn't want to know. Prostate cancer surgery could leave me impotent and peeing in my pants for the rest of my life. I'd rather live my remaining years without knowing about the cancer, and maintaining my bodily functions.
If the diagnoses is BPH, then that's a chronic condition and benign. Maybe, I should start taking saw palmetto now, just to be safe.
I just can't see any reason to go to a urologist.
Can you offer any advice?