53 year old diabetic male
After a hiatus of 15 years, I find myself in a sexual relationship. From the start, I had ED, which seems to have been resolved by 20mg Cialis. I also have virtually no sensation/feeling in my penis during sex. This has 2 effects - the first is that without friction/sensitivity, I have yet to come during sex. I am perfectly happy to make this a lesser priority for now as giving my partner pleasure will give me pleasure. (I can climax after sustained masturbation). However, although it may seem humerous, I can not feel what is happening at the end of my penis or where it is. So while I am happily thrusting away, I might just be thusting around the outside, and doing nothing for her, and the lack of sensation and her lack of excitement can leave me thrusting with a flacid penis.
I suppose I am looking for suggestions, but a wonder-pill to regain sensitivity would be fab!
(Back story - circumsised age 20, married 25 years but not very active - looking back, wondering if that was because of sensitivity probs possibly caused by circumcision)