Hello,
Excessive manipulation can sometimes lead to pain. Other causes are balanitis, prostatitis, bladder neck stone, urethritis, herpes, peyronie’s disease or penis cancer. Get all these causes ruled out from a urologist.
It is very difficult to precisely confirm a diagnosis without examination and investigations and the answer is based on the medical information provided. For exact diagnosis, you are requested to consult your doctor. I sincerely hope that helps. Take care and please do keep me posted on how you are doing.
Sounds like you need a urologist. I don't know what it is, but it could be vascular. Make the appointment today and describe it and try to get in quickly, just in case.