I'm a 36-year old white male, and I've been diagnosed with polyneuropathy of unknown origin. (I have clear MRIs but have had mild symptoms for years). I've had urinary urgency and frequency issues for almost ten years.
Sometimes having the sensation of a full bladder has made sex difficult, so a previous doctor prescribed me Urecholine PRN to ensure that my bladder was empty before sex.
Over the past year I have had several instances of urinary hesitancy (in addition to the urgency/frequency issue which almost always exists). They seemed to be provoked by taking some other medication (such as loperamide) and this has never happened "all by itself"- my neurologist concluded that I have a very sensitive bladder that can easily be provoked. These episodes have never been severe enough to require catheterization or anything like that, and urecholine has helped some. This has happened maybe 2-3 times in the past year.
In Mid-November I had a really bad cold virus and was taking Sudafed 12-hour. My bladder slammed shut like it never had before. I went to the urologist and he prescribed me Urecholine and Flomax as well. *I forgot to mention I was taking sudafed, becaues I didn't think it was relevant.* I wasn't retaining any urine- when I did empty it was complete- but I had a heck of a time starting anything- it took 15, 20 minutes. He prescribed the meds to help.
So, that night, I went home, and experienced the most acute urinary hesitancy I had ever had. I know now that Sudafed can constrict the bladder neck, and I was taking that together with Flomax (I took two .4 mg pills in a 12-hour period) and Urecholine (I think 50mg x2).
The next morning, I had a "dry" climax. It wasn't just "unusual", it lacked any pleasure whatsoever. This freaked me out so I DCed the meds immediately- including the sudafed. I haven't had a major episode since.
It took 10 days before I wasn't having "dry" climaxes anymore...but the semen volume was drastically reduced. Instead of shooting out enthusiastically, it now just kind of dribbled out. It has improved slightly beyond that, but not much. I have some pleasure, but not nearly as much as I did previously. It's a nightmare as I value sex a lot, and so does my girlfriend.
I am obviously still experiencing (at least partial) retrograde ejaculation- which I had never experienced prior to using the flomax. Post-ejaculation, I have very cloudy urine- it's pretty obvious what is going on.
It has been probably 60 days since I took the dose of Flomax.
I am scheduled to see my urologist in 6 weeks or so...I am having an entire work-up including scope and urodynamics.
What are the chances of *permanent* retrograde ejaculation from taking two doses of Flomax? (And, I'm sure, taking Sudafed and Urecholine at the same time?)
If this seems unlikely, is my pattern of recovery unusual?
Is there any specific treatment avenue I should inquire about with my urologist, given my history of urgency?