Around a year ago, I got a cut right on the opening of my penis that traveled in the direction towards the frenulum. I have no idea how I got the cut. I am very safe when it comes to masturbation and I was not sexually active at the time. The cut then was roughly 1mm. It never outright hurt, but I do remember it stinging every now any then when masturbating when I first noticed the cut. But nothing serious and that stinging never came back.
Around two months ago, I was sexually active with a partner. After finishing, I had noticed the cut had expanded to about 5-8mm. I would say the cut is about half way to my frenulum. It didn't hurt whatsoever and still doesn't, but the implications of it scare me deeply. I have attached a picture to a rough diagram of how the cut looks. (It isn't an actual picture, just a drawn representation.) (https://imgur.com/a/rcCY72l)
We never did anything 'non-vanilla,' just basic hands, mouth, penetrative stuff. I had refrained from any sexual activity hoping it would help the wound heal. After around a month, I decided to visit a Urologist. They examined my penis and only left me with the advice to keep refraining, to wait around 6 weeks, and to occasionally place vasaline on the cut to help seal the wound. The doctor said, if he saw this during a surgery, he wouldn't think it would require a catheter.
It has been 2 weeks, which I know that I'm jumping the gun, but it does not seem to be getting much better. I haven't had sex or masturbated since, I place vasaline on the wound every now and then, wear light pants, but the cut still looks the same.
I feel as if, any time I urinate, it just undoes any healing that might have happened. It doesn't outright 'bleed,' instead it gets the same light blood ring a paper cut would, every now and then. The cut being there scares me so much and I haven't been able to find anything on the symptoms online. I am quite young and I keep myself very healthy.
Does any one have ANY advice what so ever? Should I continue being patient? Are there any special kind of bandages I can place to help keep the cut together? I would visit the urologist again but I want to at least adhere to him saying I should wait 6 weeks.