Hey there, two months ago I made the worst decision of my life. I had vaginal protected sex with a stripper. It didn’t last long, but afterward she took the condoms off and gave me a handjob with saliva. I hate myself for letting all this happen, but what’s done is done.
About a day later I noticed stinging and burning when I would pee, which frightened me. Then about a week later, my penis head started to get inflammed, red, and sore to the touch. Walking hurt as it would rub on clothing and cause pain. Most of the pain associated with peeing went away though. So I went to an STD clinic, they tested for everything but herpes and it all came back negative. They said just give it some time and it would get better. It hasn’t.
26 days after the terrible choice I made with that stripper, I went to see my primary care doctor. We tested for all STDs again, even herpes this time, and they all came back negative. Symptoms are still red inflammed penis head, over sensitivity, and pain in and around urethra opening. She said it was probably a yeast infection, so she gave me one pill of fluconazole 150 mg.
Two days after taking that, I noticed the skin started to dry up, flake off and heal up under the head of my penis, but the redness and inflammation on the head—the over sensitivity and pain in the tip of my urethra didn’t improve. This time I looked inside with a flashlight to find that part of the skin in my urethra was a white pale color, which freaked me out so much. I went back to my primary care doctor and she gave me a week of fluconazole 150 mg, and gave me 10 days of the off brand anti biotic called Bactrim DS. Still no improvement :(
At about day 50, I went to see a urologist who really acted like my symptoms were nothing, even though they are destroying my life right now. He looked inside and looked at the head of my penis and said it was probably a yeast infection that cleared up and now I’m just left with over sensitive nerves. He said to apply some unscientific lotion and see him in two months. He said time will heal it. Well it’s not getting better at all and is causing me extreme distress and depression. I feel like something else is wrong. He didn’t even notice the white skin in the urethra. Is that normal? I’m so scared that this is something really bad. Please shed some light on this. I can’t sleep at all.
What does the inside of the urethra at the tip usually look like? I imagine that there’s no white skin in there & that it should be just pink.