I am a man in my mid 30's. I have masturbated somewhat frequently in my early years, simply because I could not control my hormones in that time, and continued to masturbate a slightly less frequently as a adult. I hope to ask some questions here that I would be too embarassed to ask my normal physician.
I do not view my masturbation as a bad thing at all. I do suffer from erectile dysfunction. i also have a bit of premature ejaculation. I take 20mg cialis for the erectile dysfunction, however it isn't all too efficient but it seems much better than none at all. I attribute my erectile dysfunction to the slightly more regular masturbation. I also do not produce much ejaculate, this however, i'm not sure is a bad thing. My question is in regards to having the most fulfilled sexual life since i do not have a partner. at times after maybe 2-3 days of no masturbation, there seems to be a definite need to do so. it seems very important to my well being to ejaculate after waiting such a period, it simply becomes a need that must be taken care of. I am curious if at the point of 2-3 days when i feel it is very much necessary for myself to do so, if i would have a overall much more fulfilling experience if i would to just take whatever pain comes my way and not do it. the times i have abstained from doing it at this point, tend to produce a stronger desire for a need of ejaculation, it seems to become more necessary as i abstain, and the next masturbation episode will result in premature ejaculation and a not very fulfilling experience, but a sense of relief that it was done.
I have asperges so having a normal sex life is difficult for me.
I'm also somewhat concerned about the premature ejaculation.
I wish I could ask my doctor these things, but i respect him too much, and I would not want this personal details effecting how he sees me. he is a very nice man and a good doctor.
I guess there is alot of unanswered questions here. I'd be happy to hear answers to any of them. especially in regards as to, best normal and fulfiling function
I do not eat very unhealthy foods. i tend to eat good foods, i wish i could see the benefits of exercise, so as to influence me to stick with it. i sometimes have a cigarette but i have cut the smoking down considerable recently.